Who is your match?

When we talk about "match"; we can actually relates to anything...... in this case i guess i narrow to relationship. Several situation we can put is :

Good Look with beauty = The dream match

- People always see this as a dream thing.

Good look with normal face = The Ordinary

- The mix reaction can be some say the good look deserved to have that. some may say the good look sould get the same level of the good look but then this wont be the issues.

Ordinary look with beauty = The ordinary

- same reaction with the previous one.

Normal with normal = Normal and last longer

- No doubt and this will last longer

Good Look with Ugly = Odd but they may have different reaction

- reaction A) they sure like the mix

- Reaction B) They dont like and say bad thing about the ugly

Ugly with Beauty = Odd and different reaction indeed

- reaction a) They will say the ugly always know how to used a sweet word that attract the beauty

- reaction b) They will say that the beauty is so blind and she suppose to get WAY better then ugly.

To me, everybody have their own interest and preference. Other people has no right to say bad things about the odd relationship cause as a human, we never perfect.

tepuk dada tanya selera.

Cheers

Sweet Beggar

Last nite went dinner with my best friends at Nailis Ampang. The place was ok, not then the only part that i not really keen or preferred is there are lot of beggar. Well, i actually dun mind on giving donation to them with sincere but last night actually does touch my heart.

These an old blind man came with his accompany and i guess his wife of friends. The way they approach is like cheers and really soothing tone. Its not like in a sad way where you beg for money.

Then there's another beggar and this time is a young kid. Sad where he come and asked for money like that. Don't know that this is a scam or survival but if its true this is scam, i really sad cause people can really think of bad things on this. hummmmm

something sweet and sour in life.

Iftar at Hotel Buffet

My clique generously offer for treat our team for Iftar gathering at one of the local 5 star hotel and i arrange it at my convenience and easy to handle. Easy because my good friend work over there but not because i can get the lower price then...... hehehehehe.

I believe its a trend nowadays where most of the people went there for iftar session and they treat that as a gathering moment. Look at the crowd, many Malaysian is a wealthy and they can pay with quite some money for their iftar meal.

At the same time, i met my friends. Not just one, but 4 friends. Am glad they are still a good one and they still remember me. Really glad man........

To me, am no longer a fan of buffet serving. This is because i have turn myself as a small eater but i do enjoy some of the dessert. I always love dessert. I actually made my own dessert for my own taste. Usually for iftar, me and cendol is a must. At least have a taste will do....... Just now what i do is.... i put in the Cincau, cendol, ice shread and lai chee kang, Hummmm lavish.......

I always like to find something that is really rare we can get during a non fasting month. Today i had Nasi Dagang, My own taste buds cendols, lamb with mint sauce, rendang with nasi impit, and several selection of dessert. Yummy and lavish and enough.........

Rarely for me have white rice for my iftar meal unless there's no food serve. Hehehehehe. So whats your traditional treat then.........

So for now i can say few things;
1. Malaysian is already start to get wealthier year by year.
2. Buffet offer is a lot and already a trend
3. I love cendol so much and so my mom and dad. Its a traditional and its never endings.
4. Am not a big eater anymore.
5. I meet my good friends and we share of what we miss.
6. Iftar is good for gathering.
7. Dont you just love Fasting Month.

Whats your casualties mate.......

Till then Cheers

Facebook is everywhere......

Maybe facebook is already latest trend or its already start long time ago.... But then its been favourite to all kind of people. Young, old, not so young and not so old, single, married, couple, brother, sister, mother, father and many more.... Likes facebook.

Recently I went out, so happen I have to queu to do payment. In front of me from the way he dress up looks like manager. He's holding blackberry and looks like he scrolled something from it. In my mind I thought it maybe news from email. But, when he turn and I get a chance to see what's appear from his blackberry,facebook icon flash so clear.

Its really cool, facebook is everywhere, everybody use it and everybody likes it(humm is it everybody likes it?)

Woohooo!!!!!! : )

Cheers

Young Begger....

On my way back home yesterday after my weekend activity, the taxi we took stop at Traffic Light, then I saw one kid, with dirty shirt, tanned skin, sad face and now wearing shoe.....

He beg for a money..... Feel so sad and wanted to give money... small chain would be ok, hope that it will ease him. But then my fren stop me to do that. He said its a scammed that used poor kid to beg for money.

He tried to beg more.... With sad face say please.... Please.... Please.......his face almost crying begging money from me. When he sure that I won't give a single cent, with frust he went to other car to beg money. Again he fail to get money. Then he sat at a corner of the road and wait. I can see from taxi and his face look straight to me.

Deep in my heart, I really want to give, but I can't. I feel so sad and don't know what to do.

My fren said and the taxi driver said its a scam. They used this kids beg for money for them. Even, there's a parents dare to asked their kids to beg for money.

How could they do this to an innocent kids. I really feel sad with this behaviour. Why they can do this for the sake of themself..... Don't they think, they already ruin the kids life. I still can remember how that poor kids look like with the frustation look.

I still can remember.....

Birthday Celebration

Last week my fren called and she and she want to organised a small surprise birthday party to our fren. Im glad with her idea..... and not just glad, im excited cause the one we plan is our good fren. Sure she will like it, and like it very much.......

Remind me of my 29th Birthday celebration where i celebrate in a sad way after my ex dump me 2-3 days before my birthday turns up and i celebrate my birthday with mourned, crying, and unstable emotions. When think it back, i say its bring me to a good deed. I learn lot of things after that and more over is, the suffer i been through make me stronger, happier, know and understand of what i want and mature more........ The great experience i had, i will never forget it and its really make me learn something behind it. Always

Back to my fren celebration, i really look forward for this. I really hope that she had a great moment for he 28th birthday and will cheer her up for the rest of the year.

In fact for my 30th Celebration....... I really look forward for it...... what would it be? we'll see what is that .......

Till then, Cheers

No more friends like before.

Sad to see a person we used to be closed before, now we are no longer be. What happen to the joy, what happen to the close relationship that we had before and what happen to the point we used to say communication should be the way so that any problem can be solve in a good way.

This is what is happen to me and I believe you guys face it same thing.

We used to laugh, joy, share, closed and fun..... Now, we are not. Try to get close but there a barrier and don't think we can do that because pencucuk jarum always be there to hold and not to open. How was that and how was it happen, You know what was it.

The worst part is, never think of others, just self think and influence by pencucuk jarum.... Close relationship we have build before seems like break piece by piece.

Guys, please.... You not alone in this world and you not the only one in this world. Think bout others and think there are other people who is stronger, bigger, wealthier, better, lucky or more then you. Please don't forget that there are people who is weaker, smaller,poorer,not lucky and even less then what you have rite now.

Seriously so sad to see this things happen and even worse relationship suppose to be bind closer.....crack piece by piece.

I always asked myself and analyse myself. But the most important is; asked other people wether I have done bad things or hurt other people esp the one that close with me. You never know sometimes, your act can hurt their feelings and even worst can attornished the relationship you already build. you might not realise you have done things not suppose to be.

Humm.... What can I say.... That's life and life never fair mate.I always say "If all of us have the same thought. There will no war, quarrel, fight, conpiracy, fire-stone, two face syndrom, bad influencer, and many bad things. Simply because want to achieve their goal.

Well what a heck. This too shall pass.....

Till then, Cheers

Me and Saturday

After a full hectic day in the office on friday....... i went back with a tired and exhausted. All in my mind is just bed and tv cause that what i want to have when am tired. But then, since i have made some promise with my special one......i have to be active and prepare for the night.

We went out for dinner. Both of us went to Chinese restaurant near to DBP building. We had a chinese cuisine for dinner. Its really interesting and am actually like it. Though its like the authentic chinese cooking but i enjoy every moment during dinner.

Conversation and good food certainly make the best moment for the night.

After dinner, we went to Skybar........ had a drink and get the view. Thats my promise to my special one to bring to Skybar.After that we all went to one club at klcc area owh wait 2 club. Been quite sometime didnt do that and i enjoy it. Too bad both of us tired. If not, we will stay longer last night.

Its been for so long i didnt do activities like that. Probably, not all my friends have the same interest like me and at the same time mo money.kekekkekee

I always enjoy good food and good conversation while having meals. We can actually discuss in a better way during dinner.But it subject that we have to be only not focus to the sensitive issues. Then, its surely a good conversation while having meal. Thats why, most of businessman do love having dinner while discuss bout business.

Now am at the best place i could imagine hummmmmm love it. Wish i could have this everyday.

Till then, Cheers

Weekend activities

Its been quite sometime i have not update my blog and even on weekend i just only hang out at home and just clean up my house.........

Manage to go out on sunday after i clean up my house and went to my uncle's condo for gym and swimming. Before that, my mind keep on thinking about the pass ..... what have i done, what have i been through, what is my aim and goal, my ex'es and etc etc etc.

The fave topic that keep on rolling in my mind is my ex-significant. What that fella have shown to me, done to me and i tried to search the good part and i manage to see it in my mind. Then i went for swimming , met this fella over there where he stay over there and married with a divorcee for 3 years already. He's a freelance fitness trainer.

He tell about his life, work, tips on fitness and final topic is his experience where he bump into a relationship with a marriage lady or divorcee............ and he tells that they tend to tell and complain about the pass marriage, which mostly for guys they not intend to share bout the pass experience.

Then i look back his stories on me. Somehow or rather i tend to do that, i mean complain bout my pass. I tend to tell to my closed friends about my ex'es and what they have done to me and what it has effect on me. Which is definitely not good on certain point of views. I know sometime the blame also came from me and i admit it. I have to learn and accept the fact that i do make mistake. Hurt other peoples feeling and dont want to accept my mistake.

Am glad my relationship between me and my ex-significant went well and as a friend and hope it will be better.

That's for now, till the, cheers

When you are alone

I dont know why, but then i kind of hate it when im alone at this moment. I guess it because am no longer attached and i miss of being attached.

My fave activities after work at home is have a rest and watch TV series. Greys Anatomy, Ugly Betty, Monday comedy sitcom, Monk and now Private Practise. But then again, they are talking about love and the best part of being in Love. Unlike me who are just 2 month being dump by my ex, i really miss all that part. Still can take of my mind of saying that aite.... how pathetic it is rite........ i know but then i cant help it babe.......

Its basically im kind of person who like being attached. Not on Hugging 24/7 scenario but then just enough saying that i like of being attached. I like to feel that i belong to my beloved one. When am alone at home even when am attached simple sms are just enough. But now, no belonging feeling and no sms will accompany me when am alone. So sad though..........

You know what i have to do...... i give a ring to selected friend where i can sure this person can comfort me and give the best advise to avoid this loneliness. At this point, this will do.I guess this is the consequences of being a single person and it will take time to adapt the situation.

I hope i wont be too long lonely. Rite now am praying very hard to God Al-Mighty for the answer. I guess im ok with it.

Till then, Cheers

Back Stabber

Gunting Dalam selimut.......... Duri Dalam Daging and Back Stabber.....

It bring to the same conclusion....... please beware of this person cause they are just beside you and you never know what could possibly they could do to make you suffer without you realised it.


Think bout it mate..........

Nicq

Failure is not an answer.....

Every single person have always bum into the failure. Fail exam, fail in love, fail in life and lots of things. Who doesn't, but then it depends on the individual and how they react on that situation......

Its really sad to know some of the person will take their life as an exchange. On this case basis it includes everybody in this world. The kids, teenagers, managers, parents, bosses, staff, citizen, rulers and everybody la............The others try to face it and struggle and trying to run away the failure. It depend on the person how they accept it and face it.

I guess every one of you keep on thinking what the hell is happen to me and what the hell am talking about rite....... kuikuikuikui. How this topic came is when this morning on the way to work, i listen to radio and DJ Fara Fauzana and FBI talking about the biggest failure in our life. Definitely based on the true story which is yours truly face the situation of failure. Let me tell you some of my failure.

Well, i used to get the worse result during my early years..... that was during my UPSR exam where i get 3B and 1C. I was so upset with the result cause i thought i could get at least 1A. So sad........ I cried so bad cause of the result. But then, the weird part is my dad just keep quite and he is not angry of it. I dont know why.......... that was a weird part.I still notice his reaction and he just said its ok you can do better next time...... completely different person i know of my dad.

After that, i have manage to change the situation after that from math C in UPSR i get A for PMR and SPM. hehehehehehehehe. U see, personally i still believe that our life is not that bad....... maybe there are some of the days we face this kind of situation but then its not the end of the world though. Just relax and calm down. For religious person definitely they asked for a god like i did. But for the secular, they just do yoga or anything they could think to make themselves calm. so, how bout you guys...........

I guess you had the same situation....... what will u do babe.......

Cheers

Last nite

To be frank, i had bad experience. Lot of things happen within last week and this week. Hope it will give me a lesson and my significant other could give me a chance of what have i done.

I really, really learn my lesson even though its really hard to take it but then to make things better i really really need to take it.............should i say swallow it............

After work, i met up with my best friends fiza. We share and chat lots of things. Main reason i met her is cause my other school mate want to met us to give a wedding card. " Wedding Card"........... he's gonna get married. He said its time for him to get string attached. Glad to hear that.


After that, i send fiza home and met another x-office mate. This time at bangsar at D'haven. Coincidentally, i met this fella a waiter where he used to work at Screaming Banana at Phileo Damansara. Chat, take picture, catch up few things and am trying to have fun............. but then i cant because i still miss my significant other. I miss a lot. I really feels bad of what have i done and definitely i blame to myself.

I really feels empty.

Please help me, please help. I need help.

Last Day.............

In life we face lot of situation and this one i want to highlight is on last day...........this one that i want to share start from my transfer from Johor to Kelantan, My first job at HSBC, my second job at ENC and the last one will be from Century company............

Way back then, when im in form 5........my parents got to transfer to Kota Bharu. At that time, my dad as a Prison Officer in Kluang. We stayed over there about 6 years.....Then he managed to transfer back to Kelantan...... His beloved state........ ehehehehehe.....

Nothing much happen that time, no party, no havoc say farewell, just a simple wish all the best by my classmate....... but there's one incident happen when so called a good buddy of my friend really want to celebrate my farewell by went out to Kluang Town.......and i agree to go since after this i don't know when i'll be back to kluang town.

During that time, he take the opportunity to say good bye and say I'm one of his buddy and he will never forget it that moment......... feels like a couple jer......urgh...... yuk....kekekekekekeke. Few years after that, me and so called buddy met up and he actually has change......... He's no longer a buddy and when I'm think it back........ he never be my buddy..........cause i never had one.........

Then my second memories, when I'm in HSBC Cyberjaya. My last day was terrible,I'm suppose to finished on Wednesday, its been delay till Friday.........That time I'm suppose to go without confirm, end up i found out that i already confirm......... and i have to pay 2 month salary........How was that.............just because my excellent Team Leader forgot to give my confirmation letter. Such a mess aite...........
But my teammate give a simple farewell card and well that time heals little bit on my frustration and ready to go. Ooh, did i tell you why i left this HSBC......... cause i work in an odd hour. So not me.............

My third memories is when i left ENC. Basically, i love this company. Just because i had a good leaders, good college and good company. Reason i left simply because my company has a bad capital resources and they fail to pay our salary for 2 month. Well, i have experience it and not that bad actually...............no money, and no worries..............still icant figure out how can i survive with situation like that.

But then it does touch my heart cause my good college hug me and cried on my last day. She is so good to me and we joined the ENC together and later i found out she tender 1 week before my last day......... I feel awkward when she hug me, but its really touch my heart. My ex bos treat me at Satay Kajang at Damansara Uptown..........

Well, that's more like it.

And now i change my job again.......... reason i change, you can have a look my post before. But then, still i like this place......... i had a good friends and nice place to work and near to my house. Not to say my new place far from my house but ok la........and i don't know why, when i think it back, i tend to have mood swing lately..........don't know why.........maybe I'm gonna missed my memories over here i suppose.............

Moral of the story:
1. when you leaving to anywhere, don't ever do bad cause you might never know you might turn back to that place............
2. People can change. i know cause i am...........
3. Never regret from what you have had done before. Cherish of what you have present and always looking forwards to move yourself to a better place.

Till then, cheers

Bagaimana Menyayangi Seseorang...

Sayang, kuharap bahawa dirimu akan mengerti:

1. Sayangi dia dengan hati, bukan dengan perasaan. Jika anda meletakkan sesuatu perhubungan berdasarkan perasaan, ianya akan gagal kerana perasaan sentiasa berubah dari masa ke semasa.

2. Sayangi dia seadanya. Di dunia terdapat hampir 6 billion manusia dengan 6 billion personaliti. Dia sememangnya seorang yang istimewa dan biarkan ianya kekal begitu. Jangan sesekali terfikir untuk mengubah apa-apa tentang dia kerana sekali anda mengubah, selamanya anda akan terus mengubah dirinya. Tentu anda masih ingat, anda terpikat padanya kerana dia adalah dia. Maka, tiada alasan untuk anda mengubah dia untuk menjadi seseorang yang lain.

3. Sayangi dia sepenuh hati. Sesungguhnya dia telah banyak berkorban untuk anda. Dengan kelebihan yang ada padanya, dia berpeluang untuk menjalin hubungan dengan seseorang yang lebih sempurna tapi demi cinta, dia telah memilih diri anda. Maka, jangan sesekali cuba untuk mempermain-mainkan keluhuran cintanya.

4. Hormati pendirian dan keputusan dia. Jangan anda merayu dan jangan mencipta alasan supaya dia menerima cinta anda kerana kelak, yang anda akan dapat darinya hanyalah cinta simpati dan bukannya cinta setulus hati.

5. Yakinkan diri anda akan keistimewaan dia. Dia adalah satu-satunya di dunia ini dan jangan mengharapkan kesempurnaan dari dia kerana dia telahpun cukup sempurna semenjak anda mula terpikat padanya.

6. Percaya akan dirinya. Sentiasa bersangka baik padanya jika kita juga mahukan sebegitu darinya. Pastikan anda akan sentiasa meletakkan diri anda di tempatnya sebelum melakukan apa-apa. Jika anda sendiri tidak dapat menerimanya, apatah lagi dia.

7. Jangan berjanji menyayangi dia untuk selama-lamanya kerana selama-lamanya bagi anda mungkin akan berakhir keesokkan harinya, tapi berjanjilah untuk menyayangi dirinya seolah-olah setiap hari itu adalah hari yang terakhir untuk anda berdua.

8. BERCINTA dengannya adalah seperti memberi hati anda kepadanya untuk dilukai tapi kepercayaan itu penting. Percayalah kepadanya, nescaya dia akan melindunginya sepenuh jiwa dan raga.

9. Jangan sesekali meninggalkan dia tanpa sebarang alasan. Dia bukan hanya akan setakat menangis kecewa dan kemudiannya meneruskan hidup seperti biasa, ketahuilah bahawa jiwanya akan mati secara perlahan.

Untuk chentaku dariku


-Cancer Ian Guy-

Glory or Booming

Working in a company that already reach to a Century Celebration in a certain extend it really feels proud in our heart. Well who doesn't. Work in an establish company, good benefits, good infrasturcture, good facility, good here, good that. But then, some how or rather, to a certain extant its really not bring a satisfaction in my heart.

Maybe because of the internal matter i.e Leadership and guidance.

To me who came from a small company and guide by a good leader, always make me looking forward to have a better prospect in my career. Been thought in several ways, hard, soft, in direct, laser, curse, etc. etc, still make me looking forward to improve myself to a better person.

But then when im in this century company. I didnt get it. But i like the job, i like the environment, i like the college, and i like the people inside. Yet, still not satisfied me. Make me hunt for a new job and partially start from scratch.

But then, when i say this to some people, they may say, normal la tu... Thats what we call life, challange is every where. That is the barrier you need to face it and overcome it. Well, i tried to clam myself with say that. but still not satisfied enough. Then it make me wonder, does it leadership or guidance that am looking for or my own goal for the career acheivement. so in this point, let say the leadership is bad, why must it effect with my career. Aren't you big enough to control urself and take your own lead?

By this point also i have made my decision. No matter what happen rite now, it all about me and my goal. The leadership not right is a challange and midset play a big roll put you where u are and what are you and who you wanna be and how you gonna make it happen. Coz why i do this thing, its all for my goal and i want to achieve it.....

I have made a decision to move and i got it. God basically give me a chance to improve and show what good thing that i can give for me and my interest. Leaving the century company its simply not easy for me. Good fren- best fren in fact, good environment, good benefit, good working place and lot more. Maybe its a fate that i just able to enjoy those things just for a year. But then i like it and i really appreciate it. Thanks to my good fren, good buddy and good college.

Till then - Cheers

Nicq

Double R

Risk & Relationship, Do you ever know that if we involve in relationship there are a lot of risk that we are taking? What kind of risk do we have to face in relationship? Hm… Let me see.

During our study life and work life we have learned about Business Risk Management, but in term of human contact the relationship that we build involve a lot of risk that we have to learn thru experience and we have to manage it very well to make sure no one is hurt. There are many kind of risk in relationship, start with Risk of Commitment, Risk of Honesty and Loyalty, Risk of Sharing, Risk of Sex and many more that all of you can think of.

All of this risk we have to accept after we decide not to be alone and decide to share all the inner feeling with our couple. In PLU life or some people call it as GSK, the risk of relationship is much higher than the normal people. The tendency of relationship broken due to poor management of risk is higher. Why is that? Some people said because we are not normal. Yes, we are not normal but we have chosen to be like this. There must be some solution for this. How many PLU couple can survive long lasting relationship? And some of them prefer to have open relationship to make sure the relationship is long lasting. Is that one of the risk management in relationship? What’s the purpose of couple?

I choose to be in PLU life because I don’t have any stronger feeling towards versus gender. I don’t want to be alone and I really appreciate relationship. But, being in this kind of society will I being able to get someone who appreciates relationship too? Who are not into open relationship, which believe in monogamous?

Its not easy to manage relationship risk in this modern society, its depend on how you manage it with your partner. Even myself are afraid of broken relationship or friendship. For time being, I really miss my CHENTA, and I really hope him and myself are pulling together to make this relationship worth. He is not very far away and I can drive there for 2 hours just to see him. I just want this feeling to become stronger and my love to him will rise day by day. My CHENTA, I Love You so much…

-Cancer Ian Guy-

Me, The Cancer Ian

My star horoscope explained a lot about myself.

Cancerian
The sign of Cancer witnesses to the importance of a sense of belonging in human life. It is, more than any other, the sign of home and family, but, fortunately in view of the conditions of modern life, not necessarily home and family in a literal sense. The Cancer emphasis in birth chart shows what you are striving for, whether consciously or not, is a sense that, whatever the circumstances, there is a place on earth, or an experience, or a group of people, or an interest, which can give a sense of belonging, where you can feel at home and that you are a member of a family.

The sign of Cancer also witnesses to the importance of roots, or origins, of considering the present in relation to the past. Many people feel they can ignore the past, yet feel something is lacking from their lives. Cancerians enrich the present by honouring its links to history.

Since Cancerians have a need to feel they belong, they can be very reluctant to let go of or move on from situations that give them a sense of emotional security, and sometimes it is necessary to move on. Cancer is ruled by the Moon, and to have the Sun in the Moon's sign can indicate a reluctance to leave the realm of Mother, childhood home and family in order to undertake the solar task of becoming an individual in one's own right. This task is symbolised by the move from Cancer to the next sign Leo, which is ruled by the Sun.

Cancer is a water sign, and the psychological opposite is air, the thinking function. If you chart is lacking in planets in air, you are likely to find it difficult to view emotionally complex situations in which you may find yourself with any detachment. This can lead to compatibility issues in love relationships. People whose charts are dominated by the element of air may describe you as ‘over-emotional’ - and maybe you see them as too detached! Suppose you have the Moon in Aquarius - an air sign - to complement your Cancerian emphasis. You may be instinctively drawn to an ideal (an air phenomenon) that conflicts with your need to belong, and you have to perform an inner negotiation to honor both parts of your own nature.

The above is just a brief sketch of the sort of qualities Cancer should be aiming for. If you are experiencing difficulties on the way, the rest of your birth chart will indicate where these difficulties are, and a consultation would very likely provide clues as to how to deal with them. All aspects of our nature, as represented by the planets in signs and houses of our charts, need to be honoured and respected.

Do I have to explain more…?