Let see this quote
" Its you to decide who you want to be. No one else can change that except God al-Mighty "
When im thinking of that phrase, its really true enough to judge who we are and what kind of person we would like to be. The prove is there and it always related and reflected to what you do.
The main reason this feature's came up when i like to observe people behaviour. Working in big entity, we can see a lot kind of behaviour. Some of them work as an Executive till they retired. Others; they work hard to get a better position. Some of them tried to work harder but then not smart enough in approached. At the end, they only get just ok judgement and maybe the position they expect might not be achieved. Some, they do smart move and they can go up easily.
To me as a human, of course i want to get well paid and good position with a better role. But how am i going to achieve, i still doing it and looking the opportunity. By looking the opportunity that have over ere, its really a chance and what result i want to have...... hmmmmmmm later i will show to myself. ( ya what, why should i satisfied you where im suppose to show to myself that im able to get that and dream on....... kekekekekekeke)
Guys,
or girls
What ever you do, please priority to yourself first cause at the end of the day its you who going to enjoy all your effort. Others like ur love one, your family and your friends, they just share your joy. Sometime, they dont even understand or know what joy you had in your mind.
Why do i say this, of course all my stories came from my observation rite and i always put me as a guinea pig to get the exposure and experience. Relate to my stories, previously my body shape is not that nice, with belly , got the figure but lazy to work out. Till one day, i decide to start work out and start control on daily diet. Now, im not only like my body ( cheh perasan but its true though ) , but then i have my confident back. Have a try and you will know what do i mean. But then it has to be continuously. Think about it.
Till then, Cheers
Showing posts with label Ourselves. Show all posts
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Thursday, June 12, 2008
Wednesday, April 2, 2008
Bagaimana Menyayangi Seseorang...
Sayang, kuharap bahawa dirimu akan mengerti:
1. Sayangi dia dengan hati, bukan dengan perasaan. Jika anda meletakkan sesuatu perhubungan berdasarkan perasaan, ianya akan gagal kerana perasaan sentiasa berubah dari masa ke semasa.
2. Sayangi dia seadanya. Di dunia terdapat hampir 6 billion manusia dengan 6 billion personaliti. Dia sememangnya seorang yang istimewa dan biarkan ianya kekal begitu. Jangan sesekali terfikir untuk mengubah apa-apa tentang dia kerana sekali anda mengubah, selamanya anda akan terus mengubah dirinya. Tentu anda masih ingat, anda terpikat padanya kerana dia adalah dia. Maka, tiada alasan untuk anda mengubah dia untuk menjadi seseorang yang lain.
3. Sayangi dia sepenuh hati. Sesungguhnya dia telah banyak berkorban untuk anda. Dengan kelebihan yang ada padanya, dia berpeluang untuk menjalin hubungan dengan seseorang yang lebih sempurna tapi demi cinta, dia telah memilih diri anda. Maka, jangan sesekali cuba untuk mempermain-mainkan keluhuran cintanya.
4. Hormati pendirian dan keputusan dia. Jangan anda merayu dan jangan mencipta alasan supaya dia menerima cinta anda kerana kelak, yang anda akan dapat darinya hanyalah cinta simpati dan bukannya cinta setulus hati.
5. Yakinkan diri anda akan keistimewaan dia. Dia adalah satu-satunya di dunia ini dan jangan mengharapkan kesempurnaan dari dia kerana dia telahpun cukup sempurna semenjak anda mula terpikat padanya.
6. Percaya akan dirinya. Sentiasa bersangka baik padanya jika kita juga mahukan sebegitu darinya. Pastikan anda akan sentiasa meletakkan diri anda di tempatnya sebelum melakukan apa-apa. Jika anda sendiri tidak dapat menerimanya, apatah lagi dia.
7. Jangan berjanji menyayangi dia untuk selama-lamanya kerana selama-lamanya bagi anda mungkin akan berakhir keesokkan harinya, tapi berjanjilah untuk menyayangi dirinya seolah-olah setiap hari itu adalah hari yang terakhir untuk anda berdua.
8. BERCINTA dengannya adalah seperti memberi hati anda kepadanya untuk dilukai tapi kepercayaan itu penting. Percayalah kepadanya, nescaya dia akan melindunginya sepenuh jiwa dan raga.
9. Jangan sesekali meninggalkan dia tanpa sebarang alasan. Dia bukan hanya akan setakat menangis kecewa dan kemudiannya meneruskan hidup seperti biasa, ketahuilah bahawa jiwanya akan mati secara perlahan.
1. Sayangi dia dengan hati, bukan dengan perasaan. Jika anda meletakkan sesuatu perhubungan berdasarkan perasaan, ianya akan gagal kerana perasaan sentiasa berubah dari masa ke semasa.
2. Sayangi dia seadanya. Di dunia terdapat hampir 6 billion manusia dengan 6 billion personaliti. Dia sememangnya seorang yang istimewa dan biarkan ianya kekal begitu. Jangan sesekali terfikir untuk mengubah apa-apa tentang dia kerana sekali anda mengubah, selamanya anda akan terus mengubah dirinya. Tentu anda masih ingat, anda terpikat padanya kerana dia adalah dia. Maka, tiada alasan untuk anda mengubah dia untuk menjadi seseorang yang lain.
3. Sayangi dia sepenuh hati. Sesungguhnya dia telah banyak berkorban untuk anda. Dengan kelebihan yang ada padanya, dia berpeluang untuk menjalin hubungan dengan seseorang yang lebih sempurna tapi demi cinta, dia telah memilih diri anda. Maka, jangan sesekali cuba untuk mempermain-mainkan keluhuran cintanya.
4. Hormati pendirian dan keputusan dia. Jangan anda merayu dan jangan mencipta alasan supaya dia menerima cinta anda kerana kelak, yang anda akan dapat darinya hanyalah cinta simpati dan bukannya cinta setulus hati.
5. Yakinkan diri anda akan keistimewaan dia. Dia adalah satu-satunya di dunia ini dan jangan mengharapkan kesempurnaan dari dia kerana dia telahpun cukup sempurna semenjak anda mula terpikat padanya.
6. Percaya akan dirinya. Sentiasa bersangka baik padanya jika kita juga mahukan sebegitu darinya. Pastikan anda akan sentiasa meletakkan diri anda di tempatnya sebelum melakukan apa-apa. Jika anda sendiri tidak dapat menerimanya, apatah lagi dia.
7. Jangan berjanji menyayangi dia untuk selama-lamanya kerana selama-lamanya bagi anda mungkin akan berakhir keesokkan harinya, tapi berjanjilah untuk menyayangi dirinya seolah-olah setiap hari itu adalah hari yang terakhir untuk anda berdua.
8. BERCINTA dengannya adalah seperti memberi hati anda kepadanya untuk dilukai tapi kepercayaan itu penting. Percayalah kepadanya, nescaya dia akan melindunginya sepenuh jiwa dan raga.
9. Jangan sesekali meninggalkan dia tanpa sebarang alasan. Dia bukan hanya akan setakat menangis kecewa dan kemudiannya meneruskan hidup seperti biasa, ketahuilah bahawa jiwanya akan mati secara perlahan.
Untuk chentaku dariku
-Cancer Ian Guy-
Tuesday, April 1, 2008
Double R
Risk & Relationship, Do you ever know that if we involve in relationship there are a lot of risk that we are taking? What kind of risk do we have to face in relationship? Hm… Let me see.
During our study life and work life we have learned about Business Risk Management, but in term of human contact the relationship that we build involve a lot of risk that we have to learn thru experience and we have to manage it very well to make sure no one is hurt. There are many kind of risk in relationship, start with Risk of Commitment, Risk of Honesty and Loyalty, Risk of Sharing, Risk of Sex and many more that all of you can think of.
All of this risk we have to accept after we decide not to be alone and decide to share all the inner feeling with our couple. In PLU life or some people call it as GSK, the risk of relationship is much higher than the normal people. The tendency of relationship broken due to poor management of risk is higher. Why is that? Some people said because we are not normal. Yes, we are not normal but we have chosen to be like this. There must be some solution for this. How many PLU couple can survive long lasting relationship? And some of them prefer to have open relationship to make sure the relationship is long lasting. Is that one of the risk management in relationship? What’s the purpose of couple?
I choose to be in PLU life because I don’t have any stronger feeling towards versus gender. I don’t want to be alone and I really appreciate relationship. But, being in this kind of society will I being able to get someone who appreciates relationship too? Who are not into open relationship, which believe in monogamous?
Its not easy to manage relationship risk in this modern society, its depend on how you manage it with your partner. Even myself are afraid of broken relationship or friendship. For time being, I really miss my CHENTA, and I really hope him and myself are pulling together to make this relationship worth. He is not very far away and I can drive there for 2 hours just to see him. I just want this feeling to become stronger and my love to him will rise day by day. My CHENTA, I Love You so much…
-Cancer Ian Guy-
During our study life and work life we have learned about Business Risk Management, but in term of human contact the relationship that we build involve a lot of risk that we have to learn thru experience and we have to manage it very well to make sure no one is hurt. There are many kind of risk in relationship, start with Risk of Commitment, Risk of Honesty and Loyalty, Risk of Sharing, Risk of Sex and many more that all of you can think of.
All of this risk we have to accept after we decide not to be alone and decide to share all the inner feeling with our couple. In PLU life or some people call it as GSK, the risk of relationship is much higher than the normal people. The tendency of relationship broken due to poor management of risk is higher. Why is that? Some people said because we are not normal. Yes, we are not normal but we have chosen to be like this. There must be some solution for this. How many PLU couple can survive long lasting relationship? And some of them prefer to have open relationship to make sure the relationship is long lasting. Is that one of the risk management in relationship? What’s the purpose of couple?
I choose to be in PLU life because I don’t have any stronger feeling towards versus gender. I don’t want to be alone and I really appreciate relationship. But, being in this kind of society will I being able to get someone who appreciates relationship too? Who are not into open relationship, which believe in monogamous?
Its not easy to manage relationship risk in this modern society, its depend on how you manage it with your partner. Even myself are afraid of broken relationship or friendship. For time being, I really miss my CHENTA, and I really hope him and myself are pulling together to make this relationship worth. He is not very far away and I can drive there for 2 hours just to see him. I just want this feeling to become stronger and my love to him will rise day by day. My CHENTA, I Love You so much…
-Cancer Ian Guy-
Me, The Cancer Ian
My star horoscope explained a lot about myself.
Cancerian
The sign of Cancer witnesses to the importance of a sense of belonging in human life. It is, more than any other, the sign of home and family, but, fortunately in view of the conditions of modern life, not necessarily home and family in a literal sense. The Cancer emphasis in birth chart shows what you are striving for, whether consciously or not, is a sense that, whatever the circumstances, there is a place on earth, or an experience, or a group of people, or an interest, which can give a sense of belonging, where you can feel at home and that you are a member of a family.
The sign of Cancer also witnesses to the importance of roots, or origins, of considering the present in relation to the past. Many people feel they can ignore the past, yet feel something is lacking from their lives. Cancerians enrich the present by honouring its links to history.
Since Cancerians have a need to feel they belong, they can be very reluctant to let go of or move on from situations that give them a sense of emotional security, and sometimes it is necessary to move on. Cancer is ruled by the Moon, and to have the Sun in the Moon's sign can indicate a reluctance to leave the realm of Mother, childhood home and family in order to undertake the solar task of becoming an individual in one's own right. This task is symbolised by the move from Cancer to the next sign Leo, which is ruled by the Sun.
Cancer is a water sign, and the psychological opposite is air, the thinking function. If you chart is lacking in planets in air, you are likely to find it difficult to view emotionally complex situations in which you may find yourself with any detachment. This can lead to compatibility issues in love relationships. People whose charts are dominated by the element of air may describe you as ‘over-emotional’ - and maybe you see them as too detached! Suppose you have the Moon in Aquarius - an air sign - to complement your Cancerian emphasis. You may be instinctively drawn to an ideal (an air phenomenon) that conflicts with your need to belong, and you have to perform an inner negotiation to honor both parts of your own nature.
The above is just a brief sketch of the sort of qualities Cancer should be aiming for. If you are experiencing difficulties on the way, the rest of your birth chart will indicate where these difficulties are, and a consultation would very likely provide clues as to how to deal with them. All aspects of our nature, as represented by the planets in signs and houses of our charts, need to be honoured and respected.
Do I have to explain more…?
Cancerian
The sign of Cancer witnesses to the importance of a sense of belonging in human life. It is, more than any other, the sign of home and family, but, fortunately in view of the conditions of modern life, not necessarily home and family in a literal sense. The Cancer emphasis in birth chart shows what you are striving for, whether consciously or not, is a sense that, whatever the circumstances, there is a place on earth, or an experience, or a group of people, or an interest, which can give a sense of belonging, where you can feel at home and that you are a member of a family.
The sign of Cancer also witnesses to the importance of roots, or origins, of considering the present in relation to the past. Many people feel they can ignore the past, yet feel something is lacking from their lives. Cancerians enrich the present by honouring its links to history.
Since Cancerians have a need to feel they belong, they can be very reluctant to let go of or move on from situations that give them a sense of emotional security, and sometimes it is necessary to move on. Cancer is ruled by the Moon, and to have the Sun in the Moon's sign can indicate a reluctance to leave the realm of Mother, childhood home and family in order to undertake the solar task of becoming an individual in one's own right. This task is symbolised by the move from Cancer to the next sign Leo, which is ruled by the Sun.
Cancer is a water sign, and the psychological opposite is air, the thinking function. If you chart is lacking in planets in air, you are likely to find it difficult to view emotionally complex situations in which you may find yourself with any detachment. This can lead to compatibility issues in love relationships. People whose charts are dominated by the element of air may describe you as ‘over-emotional’ - and maybe you see them as too detached! Suppose you have the Moon in Aquarius - an air sign - to complement your Cancerian emphasis. You may be instinctively drawn to an ideal (an air phenomenon) that conflicts with your need to belong, and you have to perform an inner negotiation to honor both parts of your own nature.
The above is just a brief sketch of the sort of qualities Cancer should be aiming for. If you are experiencing difficulties on the way, the rest of your birth chart will indicate where these difficulties are, and a consultation would very likely provide clues as to how to deal with them. All aspects of our nature, as represented by the planets in signs and houses of our charts, need to be honoured and respected.
Do I have to explain more…?
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