Festive Mood

hehehehehe,

Its just near by to the Raya Mood but then my work is still increase like nobody business. heheheheh Its my business then.

Bout to place article but later. Something to share............ but now sign off jap. Cheers

Wishes.......

Hey there guys and Readers...........

Nicq would like to say

Selamat Menyambut Hari Raya Aidilfitri and Mohon Maaf Zahir dan Batin

kalau ader salah and silap tu, i really-really minta maaf.

Happy Eid Mubarak....................

Cheers

There will be more things to share and i still wrote the article until tomorrow, and sometime during the festive........ Cant wait to have Nasi Dagang, Pulut, Our signature cookies - Biskut Kulit Jering, Rendang ayam, Roti Jala...... and many MORE>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>


Till then, Cheers again.

Movie share.....

Hmmmmm,

Being a normal person - hmmmm am i not normal.... kekekekeke, i mean being just a simple fella and astro as my entertainer, i kind of watch everything inside the ASTRO. previously i share with you guys about movie's that i watch via cinema this one the one that watch last sunday nite after Iftar time at my friends place.

The Movie we all watch is " The Freedom Writers" - Its about one teachers who do extremely extra mile educate their student and helping them by giving the Motivation and support and they are willing spend and sacrifice of everything to see their student success and by the power of sincerity and hard work they did it. Yeay......... kekekekeke. I dont mean to make fun of it but then am proud of it.

Beside the " The Freedom Writers" there few more movies that i could fall in the same category. Let me recall:

- Dangerous Mind - 1996 i guess

- Sister Act 2 - forgot the year

- Mona Lisa Smile -

- Mr Apekebenda ntah- this one about a teacher who teach music and passion about music haaa..... Mr Holland's Opus..... i guess - see pic

- Patch Adam's

- and many more.........

The Movie indirectly does not bring the big hit but then it really bring a big impact to everybody who watch is and learn from it. To others, no matter how many times they watch it, if they are not learn from it, what can we do........

At this point, i try to see it on me from experience, history, success and what have i done and what i want in my life. To be frank, i seriously can say it really change me from one point to another point. Some is a good, some still remain, some still struggle to move but don't know how, some down at first then go up, and some goes down.

Some people they like to make comparison between them with other person. Role model la.... A starter la...... anything that make them can view them in other perspective. Its true in certain aspect. But then in my opinion, my idea is it should came from the basic. From the beginning, from your mind.

For example, the mindset of always flush after you go. If you are not practise that at home, definitely outside they would practise the same thing. Then complain, public toilet is dirty. Who's fault and who to blame.....?

In my case, i try to see it on me first. Yes, ME, Moi, Aku, Saya, teman, Ambo, woa, I. What i do, i see it me myself. If good i keep it of make it better. If not good, change it. If there's a problem, i always try to find a solution first rather then blame on other people. Blame people is not the way it it. Trust me. It shows that you are soo...... sellfish.

I recall back and one of the scene in The Freedom Writers - Student say that he proud of Mies Heip to be a Hero, but she replied that she is not a Hero. In fact they are. They are the one who should be reward as a Hero. They are willing to make changes and dare to change.

Back to the my article, who ever make this kind of movie's or stories, they are really brilliant and genius. They have the guts and idea and they did it very well.........

Sometimes, we kind of see other peoples Greatness, strength and what they have done, without realised that they also have their own GREAT and STRENGTH. Trust me, see what do u have first before you see others.

So, how bout you............ : - )

Till then, Cheers

Weekend Share

Hey there guys.........

Had a hectic day yesterday....... Monday blues does not turn to its position where i had a meeting for the half day and i had to settle up a report for todays presentation.... though its still not complete and i just take lil time for blog as a calam theraphy........

Weekend held in a fun way where i went to my friends place for Iftar. It was fun cause im used to do iftar only for 2-3 person then last saturday and sunday had a iftar with more then 10 person and we all laugh and make joke like nobody's business kekekekekekekekeke

No picture taken cause tak sempat, but then its still caught in my memories....... sorry guys. Am not kind of person who put pic in this blog that much. Lots of memories and lot of stories to share with ya.......

Maybe later then for the stories, this one just only a quick pit stop for sharing........

Till then, Cheers

Not Fasting during Ramadhan

Well it just happen in front of me today and every year as a matter effect.

Walk back home from Friday prayer, pass through one of the hawker stall sell the Water. I was hmmmmm Sugar Cane......... yummy and owh, maybe this one is for the non-Muslim and maybe for Muslim for iftar later. I'm impress with him.

Right after i start to impress that fella, suddenly he just take a bow behind the bowl of water and have a sip for a drink. Hmmmmmm Hilang mood nak memuji lg. My mind just pop up some quiry, Do you have to break fasting just because you are working under the sun........

My mom used to tell me, if you do something or anything, at least try to get barakah. In this case, i feel sad cause if he is fasting, definitely Al-Mighty will give some credit on his effort. Hmmm i really dont know what to say, simply speechless.

Hopefully am not doing the same thing like him. hehehehehehe.

remind me of my childhood time ..... in summary......

1. Never puasa until my age standard 3
2. feels great during Puasa during my age 9 and manage to finished the whole month during fasting month
3. Ter Skip 1 day puasa cause of too tired after almost whole day do charity work - minta derma kat kg for Charity drive....... Yeah rite charity..........
4. Accidentally ate 1 banana heavenly on the 5th day of puasa when i was 14th years old.

The rest, am just am ordinary fella. Hehehehehehe

Till then, Cheers

Sign of Relationship in Red Flag

Hey there guys, something that i would like to share with you guys and i get this at Yahoo website........

P/s, its not mine, its belongs to Rich.

When determining if you should let things get serious, remember: actions speak louder than words. With that being said, here are ten dating red flags. If you see any of these, do yourself a favor and reconsider if it's worth it for you.

1. You are not on the VIP list for breaking news
Were you the last to learn about this person's job promotion or newborn niece or nephew? Once things are serious, you should be among the first to know about exciting news, or bad news.

2. They avoid meeting your family or friends
If they are shying away from meeting your friends/family consistently, then there are problems. Even if they are very shy, they should want to meet those who are important to you.

3. They don't make any sacrifices
Healthy relationships don't require bending over backwards all the time, but a certain amount of sacrifice is necessary in a selfless union. When two of my friends first started dating one another, she demanded that he go to Farm Aid for her birthday, which was also the opening NFL football Sunday. While all the guys gathered to watch the games, he was sweltering on some field attending Farm Aid -- an event he never would have gone to if she hadn't have invited him. Now that's sacrifice.

4. They can't fit in your future
I admit it. When I meet girls, I envision future moments I may some day share with them. Most of my scenarios are her with me and my family at a Thanksgiving holiday or at a summer crabfeast. If I'm really into her, I usually relish the thought. If not, I kinda cringe.

5. They are too controlling
It's scary but I've seen many relationships where guys forbid girls to hang out with certain friends, or wear certain clothes. Major problem if someone is controlling you and not allowing you to be who you want to be within a relationship.

6. The "what are we" conversation fails miserably
Almost every relationship hits that crossroads where you both decide if it's worth taking the plunge into being exclusive and calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend. If they are confused and surprised that you're ready to get serious, the timing is not right, and you should try to figure out how long you want to wait around until they are ready.

7. They talk about plans that don't involve you
My sister has major wanderlust. She's always talking about heading off to Chicago or living in London for a year. She often talks about these things with no regard for the fact that she has a boyfriend at the time. If you find that someone is making plans or talking about far off places without inviting you along for the ride, don't let yourself get too into this person.
8. Your friends or family don't like them
Remember that your friends and family know you best. Don't take their thoughts with a grain of salt. It's one thing if a person or two don't get along with your significant other, but if a lot of them are saying you should reconsider, then do it. Unfortunately, we often find out about how much our friends hated that person after this person is gone.

9. They violated your trust
Whether it's cheating or a little lie that they got caught in, it will be hard to regain trust. Trust is something we don't give away easily, and once it's gone it's hard to get it back. We'll always be wondering about that lie, and doubt will creep in more and more as our minds fixate on that lie. Too often, people take trust for granted and once they lose it they never get it back.

10. You practice "unbalanced dating"
Are you always seeing his friends or doing things that he wants to do? Do you just let him pick the restaurants and events? Or is it the other way around? Relationships are fun when you are both able to contribute. If you're not taking turns creating fun times together, it will most likely fizzle out.

What would you add to the list? Ever been a victim of any of these red flags?

Cheers

Sharing

Its bring a lot of meaning about sharing, but then all i want to share with you is when im stay with my fren in a Bachelor's house. Heheheheheh Yes, Bachelor House.

We stay 5 of us. I dont know why, but then do we need to have a situation of My things and ur things in the house........ Thats not sharing and this kind of people is not the one who should live in a sharing house. They should stay alone......

Think bout it.

Till then, Cheers