Harsh word

Yesterday i had 2 conversation where from the beginning it was meant for fun and joy. Unfortunately it has turn to the serious matter and harsh statement pop out cause mix reaction to them. As a result cause of that

1. Some of my friend take it as a part of joke and conversation and take noted on this.

2. Some take it seriously and delete me from the list.

3. Others don't take it seriously and ignored it as it not related to them.

4. none at above.

In my opinion, what ever we do, we need to think of other people and vice versa. Sad to see where some are react so selfish and semangat setiakawan is not in their thought. I'm not saying am an angel where i always think other people point of view and feelings but then somehow or rather i am a human too.

I need to say although the word may become very harsh to certain people but it really meant for the right thing. But then not all have to deal with that kind of approach. It has to take different kind of method in dealing with different kind of people.

What to do.......

Me and marriage

I have more then 12 cousin in my family and this actually come from my dad side only by not add from my mom side. In this case, we are quite close with each other and we share and gathered for special occasion and create bonding closer. When we talk about marriage, some of us will married by following the turn.

Start with my eldest brother who is the eldest among the cousin, then my sis cousin sha , the 3rd sis cousin lanie and then followed by my 2nd brother which on fourth and the 5th is cousin boy. This is the first batch of Grandson of Nik Jaafar (my grand dad's name) Then my batch that consist of my cousin mus, me, cousin tahir and cousin Is. I guess my batch kind of weird cause cousin mus still don't know his direction with marriage and me also don't know what to say about marriage. So in this case people start to asked when is our time or in a hidden word " Bila nak makan nasi minyak nie?" from our relatives, friends and anybody when they knew that we have yet getting married. We just can only smile.

Mom start to announce to the whole world about my single hood and promote me to any of her friends, relative if there any "anak dara sunti" to match make with me. Even this activity been support by my friends and provoke by my younger brother indeed. Same goes happen to my cousin Mus. Both of us just can only smile, dont know what to answer of the single hood title that we are holding rite now. Then suddenly news of my cousin Tahir (mus brother) want to get married. Am just glad that he get married and the ceremony went well at Terengganu with 1 breath (satu nafas lafaz).

To be frank, i don't know what is my fate about my marriage. I still don't have any idea what is look like and i kind of scared to face this situation. Am ok with the relationship, but then i don't know how can i coupe with the other family plus with the incident happen of family break up, the kids, the crime and child kidnap, the financial with in this world of money, the cheat by any parties of the marriage institution and many more.

As a human, i never had a marriage dream ever since i start to know that i already turn to a teenager. My friends did tell me that they do have the wet dream, marriage dream and any normal wet dream scene. Unlike me ( dunno whether lucky or not lucky) i never had. Maybe i thinking too much or exaggerated. I personally would like to get married if am ready for it. I dont want to get married if people asked me to do so, or because other people already getting married and i need to do the same thing.

Marriage is very sacred to me cause its really huge thing. Its the life, future, love, generation and sacrifice you dealing with. I hate to see the marriage broke on the way when suddenly one parties said they are not happy anymore with their partner or cause of cheat or involve of other parties. Of all the sinned that i have done, i dont want to create more and cause more. I dont want to be like some people who just marriage to cover from who he is before or what he is now.

I dont want to married cause of 3 little alphabets cause with this 3 little alphabets can cause sinned and blessing to the Almighty. My idea or marriage is Love, share talk, know each other, never ending feeling love and hugging and cuddle, jealous at the right place, responsibility, care, protect, help each other in any way, honest, understanding and believing each other.

Forgive me of my sinned. But if i died single; i take the fact and accept as it is.

Towel and hair dryer.

Ever since i notice the function of towel, i always like it. Mom always prepared it with the soft texture, water absorb very well and smells good. I always like it when its clean and smells good, but then this story is not about my towel, but its about towel condition i saw last night.

I dont know why, but there's some people can actually dare to wear the towel yang dah koyak kat tepi and at the same time nipis plak. Come on mate........ you can actually pay few hundred to be a fitness membership, but you dont really have MONEY to buy a good quality towel where you can get it in just RM 20.

I never like to judge people cause its never a good thing, but then you are using that towel in a public area and you can actually show that towel condition in a public.

Then some other people, can actually miss use the power of hair dryer to dry their towel. Aduih........ ingatkan makin masa depan kita pergi makin bijak kita buat penilaian..... masih takde ape2 kesan ade la.............

This is not what i call talk back or cakap belakang from the direct translation; but this is simply a something that you can see out as a common sense. Am not a good person as well and am not a perfect person. Indeed i try not to hurt other people or create something that i dont like and either to the other people.

morale of the story;

1. Bring a GOOD Condition of the towel to a public area.

2. Hair Dryer is not to dry your body or bath towel; its for your hair.

3. You can pay over hundred for a membership, you also can buy a good towel with cost just RM 20.

You can do better than that mate.

Cheers

February.......and its 2010

gosh.....

Cant believe its already February..... and i still kind of dreaming............

tak bleh jadi nie. I need to do something to boost up my motivation so that this wont waste just like that. What is my dream and my focus? i tell you something....

1. I would like to........

2. I need to ...........

3. I already focus on........

I dont know...... ok...... am a dead meat. Its already first quarter and i still dont have any clue what to do, what to focus and the worst thing is am still dreaming. even my story line also dead meat soulless.

ARGHHHHHHHHHHH

Tiduri

From the word some of us dah noted, what does it mean........ and selalu kalau kita dengar that bahasa Indonesia and bahasa Malaysia agak sama bunyi dia cuma ade seketika maksud dia berlainan........

Regards pada ayat subject kali nie, nick teringat masa form 3 dulu for subject bahasa melayu...... forgot ape soalan dia but then say bout tidur la..... and the answer is in objective......
so i answer meniduri simple reason behind it is because the action given and related to the situation. My answer not just wrong but also kena gelak ngan my friends. My teacher told me that meniduri means having sex....... ( masa tu diam je la...... tak argue pun)

Then last few days, i went to jakarta and saw advertisement and they said sesuai untuk meniduri........ i was erk....... i was right but at a wrong place.......

So moral of the stories, although Bahasa Malaysia and Indonesia similar but then sometime the meaning can be totally differents. Hehehehehe sangat tak sesuai kan ayat and tak match pun ngan my stories...... whahahahaha

Poyo........
cheers

Zebra Cross

Dear Pedestrian and Local Authority

I know some of the place, i can see Zebra Cross and the zebra cross line is for the pedestrian to walk across the main road for the engine vehicle. Zebra cross is widely use all over the world. Please use the zebra cross or if no zebra cross, please use FLYOVER.

There's a reason why flyover been build; "TO CROSS THE ROAD SAFELY and NOT DISTURB TO THE CAR WHO USE THAT ROAD".

Local authority, please make sure the facilities been build strong and not damage by vandalism. and for the people who is stubborn and want to cross the road without using the zebra cross or flyover, can you please give a punishment and social work.

Really annoying for whom that don't know how to used the facilities correctly and still use the short cuts and risk their life and disturb the road cause of this stubborn people.

Please use your mind. Thanks

Pointing fingers

How should i say this....... blame others...yup.... thats the right word.

Basically its easy to point the blame if something bad happen to you. Dont want to admit their fault, dont want to say that what they have done is WRONG and many more. Some people are just keep quite when they been blame, some try to smack back and dont want admit the fault or any relates to them.

I had that experience and sometimes when my close friends or my relatives face the same thing of what i been through, i just understand. Even, when the incident and never happen to me, i will try to see calmly and asked for the understanding and not be of any side.

Basically its not good when we like to point fingers especially the bad things happen to us. Listen first what happen, try to find the solution of the problem and learn the lesson. To be frank, its not my nature to do that, but then as human, we tend to do that to others people.

Stop blaming people....... work it out and am sure something good things will come for the rewards after that. At least a good will or good deed for return. You never know when is your time will come.

Me talk to myself as well.