Girls talk

I was in the lift most of the time and i end up listen to several topic which i can categories as below :

Young ladies :
- What dress to wear.
- Where is the best spot for sale
- nice shirt wore by their group
- PMR ( Hot topic for final year )

Mothers
- What baby to be expected
- What to cook to their husband
- Their kid having fun at Kg
- How many month - again expected mother......
- Many on-leave

Father and guys
- silence
- footballs match last nite
- sports
- Crappy jokes.
- Most of it---- silence......

That i what i had for the past 5 time up and down from level 22 to any place in the building........

How was that.......

Till then, Happy New Year Guys

Cheers

Stop by at Renggam

Did you know that, there is a soil name Tanah Sri Renggam.....( my brother tells me that this soil is the best soil for Palm oil tree...... ( pokok kelapa sawit la.....)

Went to Johor on 28th and 29th Dec with my mom and my lil brother. My mom want to pay a visit her friends in Tampoi and Senai and we all just accompany her.......... Had Nasi Briyani Gam at Batu Pahat and stay at Selesa Hotel. Its was nice and spend time with my mom and dad for a vacation really something we all look forward.

On the way back, we all stop by at Simpang Renggam for lunch and Dzuhur Prayer, at the same time recall our childhood memories because we used to stay in Johor for quite sometime. I remember, my dad transfer to Simpang renggam since i was 9 and we move back to Kota Bharu when i was Form 5.

All the journey remind me of our childhood esp me and my lil brother. The place have changed alot but still there some spot where we all could remember. We all straight to Renggam and i went to my secondary school........ Sekolah Menengah Dato Haji Hassan Yunos Renggam. Owh my, i miss that school so much.

Renggam, always a Renggam and it never change. Still known as Bandar cowboy. hehehehehehe.

I guess that's all i want to share, maybe later i will continue.

Till then, Cheers

See your good fren Lying on bed..........

Deep in my heart, My heart feels hurt when i saw my good friend lay down on Hospital bed with his face show how bad he suffer, his body from healthy and energetic to a skinny and i can see his bone from far.

My fren suffer nearly 2 month of fever and still no sign of recovery. Am so sad and i really dont know what should i do besides than accompany him during night.

I dont want to show how pity i am to him, i dont want to show how sad i am when i saw his conditions. I dont want any of my friends cry in front of him because of what he suffer. I must show to him that we all care for him and give him a spirit.

He is one of my good friends, the close one among the others. We always spend time together during weekend, went out for shopping, chatting, do clubing and gossiping ( not gossip bad things but share some story : ) )

He is the one who i can say i can trust him, He know what he want, and when there something bad or good, he know how to react.

We always share our joy together, sad story and not to forget our secret. When i saw him lying ver weak on bed, my heart is broken piece by piece. I dont know what should i do, It feels like i want to take some of his pain and throw away so that his suffer can reduce. But who am i to do that. Am not a God who know what He is doing.......... Like i always said, There must be some reason that we can think about it.

Im pray to Almighty hope He give back my friends a health life. Reduce the suffer and pain and bring back the cheer.

Ya Allah, Engkaulah Maha Pemurah, Pengasih dan Maha Mengetahui, Aku memohon kepada kau agar sembuhkanlah sahabat ku ini, Kurangkanlah keperitan yang dia alami sekarang,

Amin.

long time no tell story

Since the last post bout lady driver....... its really hard for me to post any article....... not because of i dont have any story to tell, but then no time to write.......

Sounds like an excuse rite...... but then thats the fact.......... am try to focus on my work till the end , am too exhausted. All i really need after that is go back home and have a rest.

I just take few minutes to share and write an article for this, trust me, ive been through with lot of things within this week and may share lil bit.

Hope this will be enough at this moment. Till then, Cheers

Lady driver........

Last nite after finish my work, as usual i drive back home...... From my office i have to pass this small little road to get though to main road. Before that little road, there another road connected to this little road to pass to main road.

Somehow or rather, at that time, there's one car came and want to use this little road. Its kind of rough and dont want to wait. I have to stop and give a way to this impatience car. After this car went through..... i saw its a lady driver drove to that impatience car.

I've experience this situation so many time...... i dont know why, why must they drive rough like that........

Hummmmmmm

Till then cheers

Play time...

I got email from my friend and he gave this ip link for play.......

http://hemaleorshemale.com/

Let see how good you are to find that the picture refer to He or She......


Have fun......

p/s
Yes i know, its quite sometime i didnt post any article....... i will put it more by this week...... kekekekekeke

Gurlish Gurl........

My office mate bring her daughter to the office yesterday. She suppose to be on leave but then because of work, she came to work.......

Her daughter is so adorable, lovely face, sweet lil and most important is Girlish........ everything she do, is always in a girlish way......... play her baby toy, walking, talking, place he hair behind her ears and her dressing....... ( that one of course from her mother)

Then, when i look at her, it remind me to my niece Nabila. She is so adorable, and loving girl. She is so bind with her brother and we all. She speak english with english eccent because she always watch Playhouse disney and like to read english books.

Nabila and her brother, Fareez are my favourite niece and nephew. But then its really sad now because they have to stay with their mother because my brother and his ex have to divorce. This is due to my brother ex-wife having affair with a PILOT. THIS BLOODY STUPID PILOT cant get enough with one woman..... and this STUPID BLOODY BIMBO PEREMPUAN JALANG because distroy hey marriage and her children future life because of her action.......

Its really bring a big scar to my niece and nephew because of this 2 BlOODY STUPID PEOPLE.

But, what ever it is, My brother, my family and me are praying very hard so that this lovely kid are happy and they really know what is good and what is bad and we are also pray very hard that nothing are going to be happen to them.

Ok, my article has shift from sweet talk to an anger.......... i should be calm down......... if not my stress comes back..... kekekekekeke

Till then, cheers ..........

Stress........

I dont know how to say this, but then this is the first time doctor tell me that im in stress!.

Its kind of weird cause i actually dont know what stress mean and how does it attack on me...... and now it really happen. For the past 1 week i kind of blur..... hard for me to go for No.2 and i have a back pain, muscle pain, hard to take a breath and bla bla bla..... seriously i dont know am in stress........ i thought thats normal........

i went to clinic yesterday and i tell whats happen to me and he do the check up...... he said, im in stress....... stress of work..... gosh....... kind of awkward cause this is the first time happen to me......

I dont mind with the chest pain, muscle pain, but what bothers me is hard for me to take a breath........ its like something stopping me to inhale very deep...... so, doc give the No 2 medicine and now am ok........

yeah, its true im in stress...... ehehehehehe........ ok ok ok i need to be calm...... Holiday perhaps...... where could it be.......

Singapore........ hummmmmmmm thats sounds a brilliant idea........No not for shopping ok........

i tell you when i have decide something.......

Till then, cheers

Happy Eid Adha

Dear All,

Since its been quite sometime from early December until yesterday, now i get a chance to say all

Happy Eid Adha.....

or in Malay

Selamat Menyambut Hari Raya Qurban....

Hope with this celebration will give every each of us the true meaning of Sacrifice in our life and to everybody..........

Btw, my article already axceed to 150 article...... this one is the 150 yosh.......

Till then cheers

Blur

I always think, every single things happen, sure there is a reason. Not only bad things happen give you a clue or a sign but, good deed too.....

I don't know what happen to me but this week is not my ordinary week. I have turn myself not easy, can't perform very well, blur most of the time,my bos keep remind me my work, and lot of thing that many things which is I used to say " Soooo not me!".

I learned my lesson and I really thank to Almighty cause show me the right thing.

That's all mate.....
Cheers

Confidence.....

When we talk about confidence..... many things related. I should say my point for this article is:
"By confidence, we can do so many things".........

Its really true and certainly the result is everywhere, for example:

• People wont give their money to the broker if they are not confidence enough on the broker capability handling money their money or the economic stability.
• The relationship between 2 person would not last longer when only one of the couple don't have the confidence to their partner.
• There wont be any technologies been created if the inventor are not confidence enough with their theory and creation.
• The country will be ruin if the leaders are not confidence enough with their leadership.
• The family will be in haywire if the father or mother dont have confidence in their parental guidance to their children and family.
• A person wont be succeed if their dont have a confidence in pursue their dreams.

Anything are based on the confidence and it depends on the person, leader, or anybody to put their confidence level. High or low, big or small, good or not. Why i place this article is because it remind me of one incident in Sandakan.......

We went to Pangkalan Pukat for dinner and place an order, normally the Pangkalan Pukat is specialised with seafood. We did asked about the chicken dish on how sedap it is...... the waiter reply

"Ayam goreng kami lebih sedap dari KFC" ( Our fried chicken is delicious than KFC)

All of us turn speechless. Wow....... normally they will say sedap like KFC or ok la or anything... but i really surprise the confidence statement of waiter ..... really confidence and the chicken is really SEDAP!!!!!!!!

Have a confidence in ur life mate...... cause with it really worth it.Owh...... thats my motto...

" Because am worth it "

Cheers

p/s.... peduli ape orang nak kata, i still nak type aper benda yang berlengkar dalam fikiran ku. or nak buat aper benda yang nak buat cause i know i can do it and Im worth it...... kekekekekeke

Yoga Banned in Malaysia

Am so totally disagree with The Majlis Fatwa Negara...........

See this article by click ere.

http://malaysia.news.yahoo.com/ap/20081122/tap-as-malaysia-no-yoga-for-muslims-b3c65ae.html

Do they really know what is all about or they just see it and discuss and decide to banned........... what is wrong with them? They claimed " The National Fatwa Council's chairman, Abdul Shukor Husin, said many Muslims fail to understand that yoga's ultimate aim is to be one with a god of a different religion"

My question........

Is it many Malaysian fail to understand the Yoga or Only THEM who really FAIL to understand what yoga excercise is all about?

Whats next..... women cant work or woman cant wear long pants?

Duh.........

On your own.....

Have you ever been in this situation......... you went here and there and a hectic weekend........... then suddenly you are free....... thats what i been having last saturday and sunday......... i just do on my own and do what thing i like to do........... which is :

- stay at home watch Korean drama series.
- shopping at IKEA ( this one went out with my fren)
- sleep early on saturday night
- do the laundry
- wake up late
- read all my National Geographic magazine collection
- went window shopping at Tesco - owh god.... am not a geek
- Fold my laundry until fell asleep. whahahahahaha i sound like so damn bloody boring.

Gosh, i do sounds so damn bloody boring......but thats the only thing i want to do...... and i loike........ its heaven babe........

Till then, Cheers

Avenue Q

Synopsis from the net :

The fabulously furry Avenue Q is a fun-filled romp featuring an ensemble of actors and some rather risqué puppets.The theme revolves around the lives of Princeton, a fresh-faced college grad; Brian, the out-of-work comedian; Internet porn addict Trekkie Monster and kindergarten teaching assistant Kate and of course, Lucie the Slut.


They get away with things only puppets can! (without being arrested).Together, Princeton and his newfound friends struggle to make it in New York City with big dreams and a tiny bank account.“The Internet Is For Porn”, “It Sucks to Be Me” and “What do you do with a B.A. in English” are just some of the hilarious songs you'll hear. Think Sesame Street with a very grown up twist

Comment from Me: - Awesome.......

One of the activities me and my SO is watching the Avenue Q. Totally a different concept of theater. The word, the artist and the set and the show...... you should watch though........ owh wait..... its in Singapore........ Dont think Malaysia Gov will allowed them to enter because its racist ( cheh, thats not a new issue) , vulgar word usage ( well that been practice all this while what) , bad influence(as if the bad influence came from outside..... inside is innocent meh!!!) , and many more of bad bad thing. ehehehehehee......

But, seriously though, you should watch.........

Cheers

Why Muslim cant eat pork

They ask this question and I'm try my best to answer it. Maybe someone out there can give much more better info than this.Why Muslim can't consume pork or even PorkSausage. You want to know.



Good scientific explanation



Bob: Tell me why is it that a Muslim is very particular about the words Halaal and haraam; what do they mean



Yunus: That which is permissible is termed Halaal and that which is not permissible is termed Haraam and it is the Quran which draws the distinction between the two



Bob: Can you give me an example?



Yunus: Yes, Islam has prohibited blood of any type. You will agree that a chemical analysis of blood shows that it contains an abundance of uric acid, a chemical substance which can be injurious to human health



Bob: You're right about the toxic nature of uric acid, in the human being it is excreted as a waste product and in fact we are told that 98 percent of the body's uric acid is extracted from the blood by the kidneys and removed through urination



Yunus: Now I think that you'll appreciate the special prescribedmethod of animal slaughter in Islam



Bob: What do you mean?



Yunus: You see, the wielder of the knife, whilst taking the name of the 'Almighty', makes an incision through the jugular veins, leaving all other veins and organs intact



Bob: I see, this causes the death of the animal by total loss of blood from the body, rather than an injury to any vital organ



Yunus: Yes, were the organs, example the heart, the liver, or thebrain crippled or damaged, the animal could die immediately and its blood would congeal in its veins and would eventually permeate the flesh. This implies that the animal flesh would be permeated and contaminated with uric acid and therefore very poisonous; only today did our dieticians realize such a thing



Bob: Again, while on the topic of food; Why do Muslims condemn the eating of pork or ham or any foods related to pigs or swine



Yunus: Actually, apart from the Quran prohibiting the consumption of pork, bacon (pig flesh); in fact the Bible too in Leviticus chapter 11, verse 8, regarding swine it says," of their flesh (of the swine, another name for pig) shall you not eat, and of their carcass you shall not touch;they are unclean to you. Further, did you know that a pig cannot be slaughtered at the neck for it does not have a neck; that is according to its natural anatomy. A Muslim reasons that if the pig was to be slaughtered and fit for human consumption the Creator would have provided it with a neck. Nonetheless, all that aside,I am sure you are well informed about the harmful effects of the consumption of pork, in any form, be it pork chops, ham, bacon



Bob: The medical science finds that there is a risk for various disease as the pig is found to be a host for many parasites and potential diseases



Yunus: Yes, even apart from that, as we talked about uric acid content in the blood, it is important to note that the pig's biochemistry excretes only 2 percent of its total uric acid content, the remaining 98 percent remains as an integral part of the body



Reference:



Morgan, M.R.A., McNerney, R., Chan, H.W-S. and Anderson, P.H. (1986) Ochratoxin A in pig kidney determined by enzyme-linked immunosorbent assay (ELISA). J. Sci. Food Agric., 37, 475-480.



Anderson, P.H., Webb, G.A.H., Jackman, R. and Morgan, M.R.A. (1984). Ochratoxicosis and ochratoxin A residues in pig's kidneys - a pilot survey. In: Proceedings of Fifth Meeting on Mycotoxins in Animal and Human Health (eds. Moss, M.O. and Frank, M.)

Surrey University Press, pp. 23-29. Ochratoxin

Journey Tales to The South

To be frank, this is the first time i travel from kl to the south city and alone. No one know why and whom i met in the south city. I just have a thought and say......

"I want to go down and i just have to go down".

Although, since last month until now, my schedule is really tight with promo, my parents come down to kl and many other activities, i just find a time for me to go to South city. And again this is the first time i did this.

So, i take a chance last weekend to go down. Bought a return ticket and start from friday after work, i take a journey by bus. Reach to the south city bout 15 min to 12.00 midnite. Since my fav local telco have the roaming services, i want to try and unfortunately this both giant telco in malaysia DOES NOT ACTIVATE my ROAMING. Just imagine how do i feel at that time. The connection lost once i enter 15-20km to the south city.

I take a risk by ask a favour from other passenger to send 1 sms and direct my SO to where i am. There's drama happen at that time and all i could say is..... ask people for the direction and at the same time have the currency exchange so that you could make phone call for communication.

Thank god i manage to get connection. If not i die.

Next day, we went out for breakfast and have a tourist activities. Gosh....... the south city is really change amazingly. I really don't want to go there just for shopping, i want to see what else beside shopping......... well to be truth there is and its really amaze me. I love it every single moment when i was there.

Stop on a negative mind about the city. Look at a bright side. They are well develop, proper, well organised, attractive, up to date, new, renew, anything..... just name it. They have the credit. Somehow or rather, we're kind of envy of what they have. That is why, we tend to say bad thing about south city in order to hide our jealousies and at the same time we're unable to do that...... am i rite mate.......?

Went for a dinner with my SO friends and went to a pub because night is still young. Well, to be truth, i like the environment. But then, do you notice that they prohibit us to smoke inside the pub or club......... owh...... thats was SMASHING............ I hate smoke all around and it absorb on my shirt..... mau fening........Pengsan wooooo

The next day also, we do the tourist activities. Well, again.... i simply love and love every moment of it together with watch play The Avenue Q at Singapore Repertory Theater. After the show, we went for dinner at Changi Airport......

Do you know that, beside send people to airport, The southern people went there for other reasons too.......?

For example, go there for shopping, having dinner, lunch and breakfast and for a leisure........ seriously they do.......kid me not mate......

I guess thats about it my tales to the south. I should say.... i like it very much and love every moment when i was there and definitely i have to come again........ This time, i want to explore more......

Whahahahahahahahaha Muahahahahahahahahaha

I'll BE BACK..........ok ok ok.... am to exaggerate but i'll be back........

Trulu..... cheers

Other point of view

Hummmm,

Within a month, I've been from KL, to Bintulu, then to Sandakan and recently, i went to Singapore for various reason, work, personal, research and observed. Definitely, lot of things i already captured and keep it in my mind. I like.........

Like i said, yes, it really bring me to the other point of views. From people perspective, the new world from what i had and what new things i seen and experience, new experience and new idea where i could used for myself and my work related. This is really interesting and i like it.

But then, when i look it back or realised it or not........ some people just go to a new place just for one purpose.......... for example.... if i said Singapore..... shopping, Sandakan..... old place to look, KK..... cheap seafood....Bintulu....... a small town with a rapid and high oil and gas industry......

The Question is "
Do you have to see only one point of view.........?
Why not see from other angle?

There are lot of things we could do over there.... not just the place i mentioned..... other place....... not only for one or 2 reasons.... it can be more...... do you realised that Miri or Kuching... they have a clean and well organised town? why can we do the same thing in KL or JB?

I dont know why, but i strongly believe that if you stop-by and think further before doing and decision..... we actually can perform better in the future. We are step further because we are prepared for the future.

I guess that's all....... what do you think babe?

Cheers

Facebook.......

Past 2 month, i start to have a facebook..... ehehehehehe, well, just a simple one and at the same time i start to mingle around. Its really fun cause i can have more friends and know from where they connect to.

At first i thought only youngsters do this but then to be surprise more then that........ Old people and high level executives also does that too......Its really amaze me and excites me at the same time.

Unlike the Myspace, friendster or other form that i normally used, well only myspace i have.....ehehehehe the facebook actually have widen scope and i cant imagine how wide it can be. seriously and all i could say Wow..........

well, try add me in ya at ike2ed@gmail.com

cheers

Me and Saturday

After a full hectic day in the office on friday....... i went back with a tired and exhausted. All in my mind is just bed and tv cause that what i want to have when am tired. But then, since i have made some promise with my special one......i have to be active and prepare for the night.

We went out for dinner. Both of us went to Chinese restaurant near to DBP building. We had a chinese cuisine for dinner. Its really interesting and am actually like it. Though its like the authentic chinese cooking but i enjoy every moment during dinner.

Conversation and good food certainly make the best moment for the night.

After dinner, we went to Skybar........ had a drink and get the view. Thats my promise to my special one to bring to Skybar.After that we all went to one club at klcc area owh wait 2 club. Been quite sometime didnt do that and i enjoy it. Too bad both of us tired. If not, we will stay longer last night.

Its been for so long i didnt do activities like that. Probably, not all my friends have the same interest like me and at the same time mo money.kekekkekee

I always enjoy good food and good conversation while having meals. We can actually discuss in a better way during dinner.But it subject that we have to be only not focus to the sensitive issues. Then, its surely a good conversation while having meal. Thats why, most of businessman do love having dinner while discuss bout business.

Now am at the best place i could imagine hummmmmm love it. Wish i could have this everyday.

Till then, Cheers

Kids schooling nowadays

Last few days, i had a conversation with my office mate and she mentioned about her problem sending her 2 kids to the nursery and take care of her kids while she and her hubby working. Few issues and then the conversation sending their kids to the private school.

According to her, she would prefer to send her kids to the private school at Gombak because they have good education syllabus and the school take care of the meals, and their children welfare. Sounds good and at the same time, parents has to pay some amount of money to accommodate the facilities for their children.

While talking to that topic, it remind me, my brother also did the same thing. He did send his children to the same private school my friend want to send her children. I used to asked him, why not send his kid to the ordinary school? he reply thats nowadays its not the same what we had during our time. Its different and not really good for the children mind and bla bla bla.......

Makes me wonder, what happen to our normal school education? Is it that bad.....?

I still believe we do have a better standard for our children education. I still believe, it still can create the best education for our new generation. I dont know cause i dont have kids and my school experience long gone and done. unless i want to be an educator. Am i? ehehehehehe nah......... am not good in teaching. I have bad skill in teach. Keekekekekekeke.....

But then seriously, is it our education is that bad until more parent willing to pay more sending their kids to the private school?

Hummmmmmmm

Not being me

I do believe, sometime we tend to do something beyond the normal activities. From that point you will know what is your limits and what else can you do rather then doing the same thing in this life.

After back from Sarawak, i dont know what happen to me but then i can see something is happen. Am not being myself and what i assure is i really have take action on controlling the situation and starting from now.

I guess being in this age, we tend to see different point of view and what we have achieve. My interest at this point on philosophy is more on self motivation on a person like me who have difficulty to motivate.

I dont know why, im able to support and give morality to my friends who need it. Unfortunately not to me. The only person who actually can motivate me is me. And as a human im sure we tend to do some mistake and lazy to do this and that.

I better take control right from ......... now? ehehehehe yes now.

Rural or urban

This few days, most of my conversation is on my field trip in Sarawak and i expect more when am heading to Sabah. Previously, most of my field trip is at Town area and at the building. So, its kind of new thing for me and new experience i gain during this event.

Once i touched down in Kuching International Airport, then take a cab to hotel and have a rest, then next day we all meet up and heading to the schedule place. From one place to another, its give me two different point of view. Start from the city until to the rural area...... lots of character, lots of stories i heard and bla bla bla. The town and the people, their culture and their way of life does interest me and trigger me more.

Am so excited and at the same time i have memories on my trip. Am looking forward to go there again. Im so trill with the Kuching or Sarawak surroundings. being me, am so called used to the city life and peninsular surround. Its really rare for me to see the Kuching and Sarawak environment. In my opinion, i should say this area or living in a state, they are more human touch compared to the city life.

No matter any races or community, they are really human touch. We should take that as one of our character that kind of reduce these days.

Moral of the story,

City life is for Money,

Kampung life is for lifestyle, holiday, relax and socialised.

Ok ok i need to stop this, feels like so not me when am saying like this............ kekekekeke

I still love Kl and always do.

What a name .......

Yeap......what a name.......

I guess you did know about some of the area has a unique name...... Batang berjuntai, Janda Baik, Pendek, Bukit Katil, Menggatal and many more and for most of us is funny....... same goes here where I went to Sarawak from 31st Oct till 2nd Nov for promotion of my work and we went several places for Hit and Run event. One of the place called "Tatau"......

This place is one of a rural area in Sarawak. Nice place and very calm place. Not much people over there and in fact the population of the foreign worker is more than the local i believe. At first i dont actually know the name of the place.... then they keep on saying tatau several times....... i was like what the hell happen, sikit-sikit tatau, sikit-sikit tatu then aper yang they tau.........

I asked them, "ape yang tau and ape yang tatau.....? "

They laugh like hell when they heard what i ask. Then they explain that tatau is a name of a place. so i got a silly joke about that........

Foreign people came to Tatau and want to know the name of tatau....

Foreign people : Hello, you orang sini ka.....
Local : Ya, wa orang sini.
Foreign people : Apa nama tempat nie?
Local : Tatau
Foreign people : aiya, you cakap you org sini, tapi you tak tau plak nama tempat ni.
Local : Ya la, wa orang sini, ini tempat tatau mah.....
Foreign people : Pelik betul la you, cakap you orang sini, tapi tak tau nama tempat nie.....
Local : Halo blader, ini tempat nama Tatau, bukan wa tak tau.
( while show the signboard on the street)
Foreign people : Ooooooooo ( shy face turn up)

Malaysian Hospitality

Malaysian Hospitality is one of Malaysian treasure where you can see the unique compared to the other places........Open house, wishes, greetings, the cultural and anything related to hospitality........


I wonder what am i talk and mumbling about....... ehehehehehehe.......


Why the name is Malaysian hospitality came out after i went to my relative weddings at Shah Alam. For some reason and always be......( i blame my mom because of insist want to come early), we reach to the place early then the bridegroom, so we decide to wait over there. The host are so kind invite us to the hall and wait while they set the area for the wedding ceremony.


We are so please with their hospitality and how they greet us. Though they have lot of things to do, they spend some time sit beside us and have a chat and make ourselves feel comfortable. I'm very please with them and the way they treat us.......

Thats not all, once the food is ready, they jemput us to take the food. As very please with the way they treat and this is the good thing bout malaysia.


That is malaysia and being a malaysian we are truly rich with this hospitality. But then i don't really know what happen, some of us tend to neglect this small little thing. More less, the hospitality, mingle around, socialised, good deed and have a manners should start at home. It would be better to practise now or it will loose forever.


Cheers

Kelantan Word

My parents came down to kl for a wedding of our close relative in kl........ The wedding is on sunday and they came quite early to see their grandson and their sons in kl. If there's an ample time for me, i will bring mom to Ikea and my brother will bring dad to car accessory shop. This time, we all only went to my uncle house for raya.

Lots of topic been raised such as my newly wed cousin, whats happen in Kelantan recently, who pass away, who's child get wed and etc etc. But then there one thing caught of our conversation is bout using authentic kelantan word....... like

Bok = books
Sigar = Ladder
tebo'ok = pendam
kessik = seram
kenyea nyadar = kenyang sampai tersadar
pekkar = bertekak ( quarrel )
hunggar = run
kenaling tih tih = seriously dont know what to answer in common word.
saka = sugar
cek pik = dont want to say what does it call in common word. ( i bet anyone who knows this word will smile.......... kekekekekeke)

Its really rare for me esp using this word that i used to heard when i was kids......... simply because most of my friends is non kelantan folks and i only speak kelantan dialect when am with kelantan friends and my family. There lots more and looking forward for my kelantan vocab........... simply a memories

Supper Talk

Normally am not really keen to talk about politics. Not to say i dont like politics but then i dont like to see the political scenario neither in malaysia nor foreign country. To me, politics suppose to be in a proper way handling and the ethics has to be parallel with the objective and bla bla bla.......

Then few weeks ago, i went out with my friends and for some reason, one of the member in the lepak group ( he kind of matured i say) has popped out the politic topic. Luckily he put it in a proper way and plus with the malaysian politic jokes.

During the conversation, one of my friends have come out his idea and i was like hummmmmm....kind of upset me with his comment but then it reminds me of the old malay poverbs " rambut sama hitam hati lain lain." Although we came from the same sources for higher education tertiary, but then the way of thinking and different surrounding can actually can differ you from one person to another.

Same goes when i recalls where i came from a normal schooling and after SPM i went here and there for studies. After for some years i met my classmate where we used to study and hang out together. He has turn to a different person and different background. Where as we came from the same school, same teacher and same learning.

Does make me wonder on that and what happen to me........

Sometimes, supper talk can aalso has input. hehehehehehehee

Till then, Cheers

The House Bunny

Watch this movie with my friend and to me just so so la the story line.......

hilarious and at the same time idiots........ kekekekekeke.... enough say and say no more........

Are they really that bad? owh my........

but then, in real life, there is happen and i used to see that once. But the thing i see is on how to change from one person to another person......... and not forget who you are........ The House Bunny did very well.

Till then, cheers

Heirachy and craving for the attention

Went out with my one of my friends on saturday and sunday. We went here and there for Open house and buy things. I really had fun went out with him cause during the journey from one place to another, we share lots of things from day to day problem, life, people and his friends and my friends.

Among the conversation, my friend did mention about about bunch of his friends and putting him in a gang......... he said that this particular group not really accept other i mean new gang for to click. Just only them.

Then, it remind me of something......... are they really just only be friends among them?

I guess there still these kind of people exist........ just only them and ONLY them. I used to be like that. The 3 type of person

Type 1.
The person who actually want the attention and try my level best to be in the specific group so that i could get the respective attention.

Type 2.
Already in the group that has the attention

Type 3
I dont even care for the attention and just want to be Me, Moi, saya and I.

The first type - where they are try their level best to be in popular group........ most of them not really kind of good looking person or not bright person or etc.......... they feel they really need to be in the group and even they dont look good but still people see them as a Wow factor.

Be in the type 2 group in the other hand actually does not make me feels great.......... To me its just the attention. Thats all....... Some they like to brag up high but to me hummmmmm what ever.........

Type 3 is the things what i do right now. ehehehehehehe.......

enough said.

Hope it give a thought for ya.... till then, Cheers

Open House Race

Starting from 11th Oct till 27th Oct..... my weekend is full with open house. Whether from my close friends, my relatives, my new friends and follow my friend to open house....... i try my level best to be there. Every year i enjoy the scenery and i like it. Malaysia is very unique and this is very special and we should keep it.

The main reason this article need to post as usual is on my opinion about open house. Since I've been to several places, one of the things caught in my attention on food.......no doubt when we say raya.... Rendang, nasi impit, lemang and etc....But then am bored with those stuff......

Normally what i do when i went for open house..... i try to find something differ from other houses....... Roti Jala, Satay, spaghetti, mee curry and lots more.........This year i manage to have various type of food and enjoy every moment. But then, thank god am not craving for that......... just like ok....... have it as a matters of rasa and enjoy and mingle around..... thats the true Hari Raya spirit what........

And some, they dont know how to cook....... or dont know what to cook....... all they do is just spaghetti......... urghhh.... please.... like spaghetti is so common...........
cant they do something different......... baked macaroni ker....... or mee curry ker....... kebab ker....... thats is easy and really easy......but, their effort to do open house is what i salute for..... kuikuikui.............

Really like it and next year also looking for that............

But then, did you notice that MRR2 traffic is so damn bad during this syawal......... what happen to kl people's driving........... should i say worse.............

Till then, cheers : )

Weekend night out

Well,

My weekend start on friday night and end until sunday night. What have i done during that 2 good satuday and sunday....... hmmmmmmm should i say " Hell beginning but Heaven in the End". Back home from office quite late cause i have to prepare the report for the my division portfolio and after im from the office, i just go straight to my freinds house.Simply because i really dont want go back home yet.

Then I just hang out and we had a chat over there until bout 9 something near to 10 my fren called for supper at William at Kelana Jaya. Kind of fun cause most of my friends were there and i can have lot of food to finished..... hehehehehee.

Dont have time to change, i straight pick up my friend at his house. While on my way, my other friends asked to go clubbing. At first no intention but then after he push and say please...... i just follow. Dislike come up when suppose he send me back, end up i have to send him and i have to go back home by train.This is because of he Drinks and cant control already of his drunk level that night. Thats the hell part...........

Saturday, i went for a Open House to a several houses and sunday as well. All together is 8 houses and my tummy full of food and yummy........... i have to reject one house at Kelana Jaya with my friends cause the traffic really bad.

That is heaven part. ehehehehehehe.........

All this while, and my habit, i like to observed people and what happen to them since the moment i be friend with them until now. Before sending my friend to his house , we stop by at one restaurant and he had supper........ Me with my other friends see and at that moment we also have a chat of anything. It really surprise me by his answer and way of thinking cause we came from one source of higher Tertiary education.

I really dont like to judge people, but then at this point it really does trigger me on human behaviour and piece of mind. We cant really say that people who came from one education sources will provide the same result and same behaviour. We just presume that it will be the same, but it's not. Various factor occurs at this point and surroundings actually play a bigger role change a person. But............ it depend on that particular person to see and accept it.

It does open up my mind and im glad i knew this. hmmmmmmmm or not....... or deny. hmmmmmmmmm

Till then, Cheers

Goda......

Really dont know but sure what i could do is give this series a credit. Not top up credit but a better and nice review.

Similar like Sepet, Bernard Chauly also one of the creative director. He manage to share the story in a simple way and of course using normal life as a platform. Again, enough say i love the series same as i like watch the Private Practice and House. You can see the synonsis below ....

GODA kisah mengenai “sifu cinta” yang lebih dikenali sebagai ‘M’ di mana di dalam blognya, dan dia juga yang memiliki rancangan talk show nya sendiri di radio, ‘M’ memberikan nasihat-nasihat untuk yang memiliki masalah cinta dan juga kepada para jejaka yang cuba untuk mendapatkan gadis yang diidam-idamkan.

Burhan, seorang eksekutif pemasaran yang sangat kekok dalam menggoda wanita kerana mempunyai perasaan rendah diri telah meminta pertolongan ‘M’. Burhan menaruh perasaan terhadap pengurus yang baru ditukarkan ke tempat kerjanya, Adela dan ‘M’ sendiri tahu yang dia mempunyai tugas besar dalam menyelesaikan masalah tersebut.
Adela yang merupakan anak tunggal kepada Datuk Razak, pengarah tempat Burhan bekerja. Adela seorang wanita jelita lagi kaya-raya dan hanya tahu menggunakan lelaki sebagai tempatnya bersenang-lenang kerana dia juga tahu yang lelaki-lelaki ini hanyalah untuk mengambil kesempatan untuk mendapat tempat di empayar ayahnya. Adela juga seorang wanita yang mempunyai cita rasa tinggi yang Burhan tahu dia tidak mampu untuk menggapainya.

Sementara itu, Sanya yang merupakan seorang wartawan yang bekerja untuk sebuah akhbar tabloid yang mahukan dirinya diambil serius didalam kerjayanya telah berhenti menulis mengenai kisah gossip panas para selebriti. Dia yang terjumpa dengan blog ‘M’ telah mengambil salah satu artikelnya lalu menunjukkan kepada editor untuk membongkar identiti sebenar ‘M’ – adakah dia benar seorang pakar dalam percintaan atau hanyalah seorang penipu? Editor Sanya memberikan persetujuan namun ianya menimbulkan huru-hara apabila dianggap hanya memberikan gimik kepada akhbar tabloid tempatnya bekerja. Sanya juga berasakan tidak selesa kerana dia mula bercerita mengenai masalah kisah cintanya terhadap M.

“Setiap episod siri mini ini juga memaparkan mengenai masalah-masalah yang berlainan di mana lelaki-lelaki normal meminta nasihat dan pertolongan M untuk menyelesaikan masalah dan dilema mereka,” kata Penerbit Ekskutif, Lina Tan. “Walaupun mempunyai tajuk cerita yang sangat menggoda, namun kisah mini GODA siri ini adalah pemahaman mengenai jantina yang berlainan.”

GODA dibintangi oleh Sazzy Falak sebagai Sanya dan menampilkan Lash Mokhtar sebagai Burhan serta Dilla Syahirah sebagai Adela dan serta banyak pelakon-pelakon hebat tanah air seperti Radhi Khalid, Dato Rahim Razali, Nas-T, Razif, Nabila Huda, Fahrin Ahmad serta ramai lagi. Diarahkan oleh Bernard Chauly dan skrip dihasilkan oleh pelbagai penulis seperti Rafidah Ahmad, Nizam Zakaria serta ramai lagi.

Siapa si misteri “M”? Adakah Burhan berjaya mengeksperesikan perasaannya terhadap Adela? Adakah Adela juga akan menyintai Burhan? Adakah Sanya berjaya membongkar identiti sebenar “M”?

I only manage to watched last episode of GODA. Yet i still feels like i watched the movie from the beginning.

Till then, Cheers

Sepet

Watched Sepet last week and from the first time i watch this movie at home until recently........ i still love the movie and no complain should i raised except a cheer applauder.

To me Yasmin Ahmad did very well as a Storyteller. She is really a genius producer and her work is a success. Different from other movie - malay movie to be exact, it really show the reality and what is happening nowadays. The movie is not to hard or heavy to think, but then it really open up certain people's eye's and do some changes in their mind and their way of thinking.

When i watched this movie, my brother kind of object and asked to change the channel. But then i said have a look first then if you dont like it, we change it. Start from beginning until the end he watched the movie and dont move anywhere.

Am not a professionals but then enough say i really truly love this movie. Definitely a smile always pop up when my mind thinking about SEPET.

Till then, Cheers

Untold married

Went out with my friends at Awan Besar for satay supper and mini gather, and we had chat of everything........one of the topic is about untold married....... its not about my friends who get married secretly but then he actually keep it secret that he already get engage with his love one.

This is not the first time it happen to me, this is the second time happen among my click friends. I knew the news from my mom say my friend is engage but then dont actually take it serious how true it was. In my case, i dont want to know deeply cause afraid my mom will raise the issues of " When will she get a new member in our family"...........

The first incident happen to my other friend who is trying very hard keep a secret of his engagement and later it burst out by slip of tongue in front of my friend and my friend straight away tell to us via email group. Ouch and gosh....... hehehehehe....... I rather not to discreet who that was but then just enough say its a friends of mine.

That night we all keep on asking and later he finally tell us the true story of engagement and of course its a good news what...... but still i dont want to tell on behalf of him cause am not his PA. Just let he himself tell the news and all i want is been invited for his wedding ceremony and get the present.... yes... get the present ya.... not give the present kuikuikuikui I wish..........

Like my post previously.... human is unique....... they are so unique until no one can predict or know the exect about human but God knows........ I guess i leave to you to judge and say.......

Till then, cheers now

p/s.... this is my 125 article........ hehehehehe

Money and Fair of Life

Hmmm how should i start my article........... ok the easiest thing is about salary........ Here i go.......

When we talk about salary, its sensitive issues to every single person. How bad the sensitivity is it depend to them but then most of us dont like to tell others how much they earn cause that is their personal matters. 2 person in a same unit can have different salary pay and it will based on several aspect. At this point, HR can tell why....

People will do anything to get a better earn. They might get lucky, they will get paid higher then previous job and other person. They will work hard, smart or play hard and play smart. Depend on every each single person. Some would love to lick their boss arse to get better pay or play dirty to move up. What ever it is - again subject to the person who want it or who dont.

I have my friends who work extra hours to get better claim, some would travel across the border or the sea for a better job, some change job many time for a better pay. They dont mind change many place as long next company will pay higher then the current company. I did that too but then not too obvious. Mostly i change job place because of work and i want to have more then what i have right now.

I only raise the issues about salary ya........ but this can be applied to the other aspect but readers common sense kindly needed. I dont plan to offend other person just want to share my point of views.

Since am talking about the money and salary, it comes to me about fair of life. Some work very hard, but then they only get paid lower then what they expected. Some just do lil bit here and there, they get the price higher then others, some are just lucky enough. Some work very hard and pray to Al Mighty or God every time they pray and they just get fair earn only. Some dont even pray to God still........ they can live in a wealthy life. Even worse they never thank of what they get.

When i look at it, Al-Mighty or God are fair enough to every each person. He really know what he is doing. Being a human we tend to complain and get frust easily. I used to be like that. I complain a lot and almost get frust easily. But my parent always thought one thing......... never ever give up and never lost hope to Him. He know what he is doing and at the same time we need to look to our self more and look up of anything that you could correct it and improve it. Remember...... no other people can change you except You and God.

I always asked for bless of everything i do. Of course i asked for more rezeki.... but also come togther with berkat or blessed by Him. When we say God is not fair, are you sure he is not fair to you............. may i asked you one thing...... are you the only one who live in this world........... think about it babe.......... same goes with me at the same time.... kekekekeke.

I guess thats all i can share... dont want to continue cause i might lead to mumbling and of course i dont like people who like to mumbling all around the world for a small topic. There's more things to think and share.

Till then, Cheers

Unexpected incident

Hehehehe.........

Just enough make me laugh when i saw my own article title........

Have you encounter a situation where you try to hide something and suddenly you met someone and coincident that fella try to hide the same thing you try to hide as well,

hehehehehehe..........decide not to share bout this case cause if i do it will bring chaos .... decide to keep it to myself. But then seriously i do feel funny when think about it....... kekekekekekeke

Cheers

Art of Serving.

During Raya, i went out and hang out around Kota Bharu with my friends......... out of 4 night i went out, I've been to 4 different places. First night 2 night before raya i went to White House Coffee.

We had a bread toast and coffee. This is an old place and gosh i really love it every each moment over there. Night of raya, went out mingle with my primary school friends and since its festive season, we all had a problem and dont know where to go. Lastly we manage to find a spot called " Ridel Hotel beside kelantan river. Its so pack with people and just only 2 cafe open that night.

I guess they never expect to be that busy and lot of people turn up, its kind of haywire to them managing the situation. Pity them. We order a drink and to take order takes about half and hour and get our drink an hour after that. Its kind of ok to us cause at the mean time we all can have chat and catch up what we have been missed and whats the latest.

The next day even worse where i went there again with other colleague and they like chic lost hen. the service is so slow even snails move faster then them. That night we all found out that Ridel Cafe and Bikers Cafe is not same mgmt and Ridel Cafe closed their order by 11.15 pm. Which i think its their loss.

The third night i went there again after my friends call and meet them over there. Again..... yes......... we had chicken wing and keropok and chicken soup. The soup taste so bad and the service even worse. When they serve a bowl of soup, my fren sarcastic asked for a straw for soup. We thought they understand what my fren mean......... guess what they gave...... Yes.... a straw....... Cant they think and get a common sense? asked for the plain warm water takes for ages to get it and it has to be 3 time request. How bad it can be.......

The only fun thing when i was there is the scenery and view.... there are lots of eye candy and enjoy as much as can be...... - as if there no eye candy in KL.........

The other place i went is at PCB and Noodle station. Noodle station did well this time maybe because they have been there since several years and they prepared it this time and open longer then normal operation hour. Good for them.Same goes at PCB where it looks like there have done mise-en-place* for raya....

Being in serving and i have put myself in service line before make me upset of what really happen. That is why there books and studies about the Art of Serving and they teach us lot of things about service. People may think service is an easy job and take it easy. Just bear in ur mind that how good your food is and how grand your place is, if the service is poor or worse, the curse will follow until bad image create to you.

* mise-en-place is a hotel or hospitality term for preparation.

I guess thats all, till then Cheers

Cycle of Life

During Raya is a chance for me to meet my friends. Not all but then just enough to make our relationship closer and get the news of others who kind of silence in a way or contactable by any means.....

Went to see my friend and this fella i should say kind of playful during his school time. I be friends with many kind and from that i leave to my thought to analyse and judge which one is good to follow and good to avoid. Not to say he is a bad person but then his life cycle stories interest me.

When we all me up, since last year in fact, he keep on saying about his ups and down. According to him, he used to be up where he think he get everything that he want and now he is down where all the problems burden him to go up again. He used to have a car and lot of friends and they had fun and joy all the way and now his just be only him and be friend with any friend who just want to be friend with him. Its hard for him to come up again...........

In my opinion and based on my experience, it happen to every each person of us. Sometimes we on the top, sometimes we're at the bottom. It is not impossible for you to go up if you want to and if you do, what have you done to get up again.

Maybe its not the time to be on top and let see what can we do at the bottom so that when we on top, we can hold it and take bottom as a guidance for the juice of life. Sometimes we might think that we are at the bottom but then we are not. We are just in between Top and Bottom.

Somehow or rather, i completely understand how does he feels and I'll put it in my mind for the thought for me and can share to others. There's always a way to solve this problems and all we need is to find the ways to react on it. Sometime, we know that way is the solutions but still we follow our own way. Just because of what our heart say and ego play the role. Its you to choose your own way and to decide.

After i listen to his story. I just keep silence and node my head say i understand. No comment or advice comes out cause in my opinion i should show my concern only and that's all. Some people used to say Silence is Golden and that's what am i doing.

What say you.......... till then, Cheers

Nicq

am back.........

Kekekeke, as if i have lot of people to read my blog....... but then thanks again cause spend lil time read my blog......... Please give me some comment so that i could do more after this........

Ok, back after raya.... there are lot of things i would like to share in fact i have note it down what things that i want to share........ ok, here i go......

Back from kl to kelantan, no problem for me and my brother... we all just had a smooth journey. But then when we decide to return to kl on saturday afternoon...... that cause us a problem...... what problem is that- stuck in a jam for many hours...... urgh......... hate it. It start with our plan to go back to kl on Saturday. Hoping that most of the people want to go back to kl saturday morning. I thought since they all want to go back early, i should take my own sweet time back to kl on saturday afternoon. The best part is not only me who thinks like that...........

So we start our journey by 2 plus after lunch and dzuhur prayer and while journey we all sms other people who drove back on the same day and how was the journey looks like...... like we all expected, jam and slow moving all the way. We decide to take Terengganu route for our journey....... it went smooth until we all reach at Gong Badak area where lots of cars stuck. Just because of round-a-bout and from there we all met the traffic jam all the way until pass the Kuala Terengganu area. We spend about 2 hours stuck in a various jam in Kuala Terengganu. The curse is in my mind and the calm also put in place to cool us down. We suppose to spend only about 20 minutes journey pass the Kuala Terengganu town end up to 2 hour stuck.Hmmmmmmmm

Then the journey went well back until we reach at Karak highway. 1 hour journey. That one, i kind of pity cause there's a bus broke down and cause us bad traffic jam for 1 hour. But then i wonder cause Karak highway mgmt should open up the opposite side for us go though and smooth the traffic.

Normally the journey from KL to Kota Bharu just take bout 8 hours end up to 11 hours. Reach at home at 2 am to be exact. Tired and flat because of the long journey. After 3 years face the jam during festive season, i have declare to changes on journey timeline...... when was that..... you will know. kuikuikuikui.

There's more to share. Later i update. Trulu............

Till then, Cheers

Nicq

Festive Mood

hehehehehe,

Its just near by to the Raya Mood but then my work is still increase like nobody business. heheheheh Its my business then.

Bout to place article but later. Something to share............ but now sign off jap. Cheers

Wishes.......

Hey there guys and Readers...........

Nicq would like to say

Selamat Menyambut Hari Raya Aidilfitri and Mohon Maaf Zahir dan Batin

kalau ader salah and silap tu, i really-really minta maaf.

Happy Eid Mubarak....................

Cheers

There will be more things to share and i still wrote the article until tomorrow, and sometime during the festive........ Cant wait to have Nasi Dagang, Pulut, Our signature cookies - Biskut Kulit Jering, Rendang ayam, Roti Jala...... and many MORE>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>


Till then, Cheers again.

Movie share.....

Hmmmmm,

Being a normal person - hmmmm am i not normal.... kekekekeke, i mean being just a simple fella and astro as my entertainer, i kind of watch everything inside the ASTRO. previously i share with you guys about movie's that i watch via cinema this one the one that watch last sunday nite after Iftar time at my friends place.

The Movie we all watch is " The Freedom Writers" - Its about one teachers who do extremely extra mile educate their student and helping them by giving the Motivation and support and they are willing spend and sacrifice of everything to see their student success and by the power of sincerity and hard work they did it. Yeay......... kekekekeke. I dont mean to make fun of it but then am proud of it.

Beside the " The Freedom Writers" there few more movies that i could fall in the same category. Let me recall:

- Dangerous Mind - 1996 i guess

- Sister Act 2 - forgot the year

- Mona Lisa Smile -

- Mr Apekebenda ntah- this one about a teacher who teach music and passion about music haaa..... Mr Holland's Opus..... i guess - see pic

- Patch Adam's

- and many more.........

The Movie indirectly does not bring the big hit but then it really bring a big impact to everybody who watch is and learn from it. To others, no matter how many times they watch it, if they are not learn from it, what can we do........

At this point, i try to see it on me from experience, history, success and what have i done and what i want in my life. To be frank, i seriously can say it really change me from one point to another point. Some is a good, some still remain, some still struggle to move but don't know how, some down at first then go up, and some goes down.

Some people they like to make comparison between them with other person. Role model la.... A starter la...... anything that make them can view them in other perspective. Its true in certain aspect. But then in my opinion, my idea is it should came from the basic. From the beginning, from your mind.

For example, the mindset of always flush after you go. If you are not practise that at home, definitely outside they would practise the same thing. Then complain, public toilet is dirty. Who's fault and who to blame.....?

In my case, i try to see it on me first. Yes, ME, Moi, Aku, Saya, teman, Ambo, woa, I. What i do, i see it me myself. If good i keep it of make it better. If not good, change it. If there's a problem, i always try to find a solution first rather then blame on other people. Blame people is not the way it it. Trust me. It shows that you are soo...... sellfish.

I recall back and one of the scene in The Freedom Writers - Student say that he proud of Mies Heip to be a Hero, but she replied that she is not a Hero. In fact they are. They are the one who should be reward as a Hero. They are willing to make changes and dare to change.

Back to the my article, who ever make this kind of movie's or stories, they are really brilliant and genius. They have the guts and idea and they did it very well.........

Sometimes, we kind of see other peoples Greatness, strength and what they have done, without realised that they also have their own GREAT and STRENGTH. Trust me, see what do u have first before you see others.

So, how bout you............ : - )

Till then, Cheers

Weekend Share

Hey there guys.........

Had a hectic day yesterday....... Monday blues does not turn to its position where i had a meeting for the half day and i had to settle up a report for todays presentation.... though its still not complete and i just take lil time for blog as a calam theraphy........

Weekend held in a fun way where i went to my friends place for Iftar. It was fun cause im used to do iftar only for 2-3 person then last saturday and sunday had a iftar with more then 10 person and we all laugh and make joke like nobody's business kekekekekekekekeke

No picture taken cause tak sempat, but then its still caught in my memories....... sorry guys. Am not kind of person who put pic in this blog that much. Lots of memories and lot of stories to share with ya.......

Maybe later then for the stories, this one just only a quick pit stop for sharing........

Till then, Cheers

Not Fasting during Ramadhan

Well it just happen in front of me today and every year as a matter effect.

Walk back home from Friday prayer, pass through one of the hawker stall sell the Water. I was hmmmmm Sugar Cane......... yummy and owh, maybe this one is for the non-Muslim and maybe for Muslim for iftar later. I'm impress with him.

Right after i start to impress that fella, suddenly he just take a bow behind the bowl of water and have a sip for a drink. Hmmmmmm Hilang mood nak memuji lg. My mind just pop up some quiry, Do you have to break fasting just because you are working under the sun........

My mom used to tell me, if you do something or anything, at least try to get barakah. In this case, i feel sad cause if he is fasting, definitely Al-Mighty will give some credit on his effort. Hmmm i really dont know what to say, simply speechless.

Hopefully am not doing the same thing like him. hehehehehehe.

remind me of my childhood time ..... in summary......

1. Never puasa until my age standard 3
2. feels great during Puasa during my age 9 and manage to finished the whole month during fasting month
3. Ter Skip 1 day puasa cause of too tired after almost whole day do charity work - minta derma kat kg for Charity drive....... Yeah rite charity..........
4. Accidentally ate 1 banana heavenly on the 5th day of puasa when i was 14th years old.

The rest, am just am ordinary fella. Hehehehehehe

Till then, Cheers

Sign of Relationship in Red Flag

Hey there guys, something that i would like to share with you guys and i get this at Yahoo website........

P/s, its not mine, its belongs to Rich.

When determining if you should let things get serious, remember: actions speak louder than words. With that being said, here are ten dating red flags. If you see any of these, do yourself a favor and reconsider if it's worth it for you.

1. You are not on the VIP list for breaking news
Were you the last to learn about this person's job promotion or newborn niece or nephew? Once things are serious, you should be among the first to know about exciting news, or bad news.

2. They avoid meeting your family or friends
If they are shying away from meeting your friends/family consistently, then there are problems. Even if they are very shy, they should want to meet those who are important to you.

3. They don't make any sacrifices
Healthy relationships don't require bending over backwards all the time, but a certain amount of sacrifice is necessary in a selfless union. When two of my friends first started dating one another, she demanded that he go to Farm Aid for her birthday, which was also the opening NFL football Sunday. While all the guys gathered to watch the games, he was sweltering on some field attending Farm Aid -- an event he never would have gone to if she hadn't have invited him. Now that's sacrifice.

4. They can't fit in your future
I admit it. When I meet girls, I envision future moments I may some day share with them. Most of my scenarios are her with me and my family at a Thanksgiving holiday or at a summer crabfeast. If I'm really into her, I usually relish the thought. If not, I kinda cringe.

5. They are too controlling
It's scary but I've seen many relationships where guys forbid girls to hang out with certain friends, or wear certain clothes. Major problem if someone is controlling you and not allowing you to be who you want to be within a relationship.

6. The "what are we" conversation fails miserably
Almost every relationship hits that crossroads where you both decide if it's worth taking the plunge into being exclusive and calling each other boyfriend/girlfriend. If they are confused and surprised that you're ready to get serious, the timing is not right, and you should try to figure out how long you want to wait around until they are ready.

7. They talk about plans that don't involve you
My sister has major wanderlust. She's always talking about heading off to Chicago or living in London for a year. She often talks about these things with no regard for the fact that she has a boyfriend at the time. If you find that someone is making plans or talking about far off places without inviting you along for the ride, don't let yourself get too into this person.
8. Your friends or family don't like them
Remember that your friends and family know you best. Don't take their thoughts with a grain of salt. It's one thing if a person or two don't get along with your significant other, but if a lot of them are saying you should reconsider, then do it. Unfortunately, we often find out about how much our friends hated that person after this person is gone.

9. They violated your trust
Whether it's cheating or a little lie that they got caught in, it will be hard to regain trust. Trust is something we don't give away easily, and once it's gone it's hard to get it back. We'll always be wondering about that lie, and doubt will creep in more and more as our minds fixate on that lie. Too often, people take trust for granted and once they lose it they never get it back.

10. You practice "unbalanced dating"
Are you always seeing his friends or doing things that he wants to do? Do you just let him pick the restaurants and events? Or is it the other way around? Relationships are fun when you are both able to contribute. If you're not taking turns creating fun times together, it will most likely fizzle out.

What would you add to the list? Ever been a victim of any of these red flags?

Cheers

Sharing

Its bring a lot of meaning about sharing, but then all i want to share with you is when im stay with my fren in a Bachelor's house. Heheheheheh Yes, Bachelor House.

We stay 5 of us. I dont know why, but then do we need to have a situation of My things and ur things in the house........ Thats not sharing and this kind of people is not the one who should live in a sharing house. They should stay alone......

Think bout it.

Till then, Cheers

What will you do when some1 tell you "He/She" love's you!!!!!!!!!!

Hmmmmmm, Before i start my conversation........ I would like to say....... Thanks Fahmi........you all memang memahami penderitaan i. I know its seriously a BIG humour for you but then it really helps me a lot to cool me down after hear a big laugh from you....... Thanks and Please ya....... its our secret. Please dont tell to anyone.

Back to my story....... Well, this idea pop up when i read this article from juju's blog. What will you do when someone tell that he Love's you........... I used to have that kind of situation and after what had happen definitely am not into it...........Its scary, its too soon, its rushing and it will lead to anything that you might not think off....... or cant imagine i suppose........ Do you really can trust of people who just can simply declare or say I love you in short time.......

Owh please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Be realistic, we bare knew this person very well, just only a short time of know each other and you can simply accept him or her to be you partner or couple. You dont even know this person history, health condition, financial condition, pass relationship, pass career path, education, family background, his attitude and many more.........

Dont you think that its really important for you to be little bit careful or should i say Fully precautions................? Seriously. Let me tell you a story tell by my fren. Well, let just say Mr J. He kind of precaution person and believe of True Love. So, he is willing to wait a so called " Perfect Person" came to his life. One day, he met this fella and he fall in Love to this fella. Being a person who is in Love........ he willing to do anything including having sex. So he kind of willing to loose his virginity to this person. The bad thing is, J is just know this fella in a short time. He dont event know anything about this person who he so called Love........Well, Guess what........ That fella has HIV and it effected to J. His first time loose his virginity and first time effected by HIV.

I feel sorry to him and hope he's doing well after what really happen. When i heard about this story, i was like......... silence and speechless. Dont know what to say and dont want to say anything. But what can i do is take that as my guideline and iktibar. I dont want to make same mistake had happen to J. I love myself and i love you guys too........... i dont want you to make the same mistake like others did.

Just chill, take your own sweet time and know this person. I dont mean " sweet time" by any chance give ur precious to him for sweetness......... Take a long as can be to know this person. You will see the answer later. Good things will come if you know how to be patience. Patience pay dude....... Trust me , but most important is Trust ur Guts not your emotion.

Till then, Cheers

Please guys, bear in ur mind that not all people are innocent. They have other intention for their own good.

Alone and Yourself

After quite sometime, i kind of like of what i had rite now. Do most of the time alone and be here and there alone.

Last nite i spend my time alone at home. My siblings is not at home, so left me alone for iftar time and tv time after terawikh. I cook fried instant noodle and eat my Jco donut alone and went to masjid for isya' and terawikh and spend the rest of the night watching Ugly Betty, Lipstick Jungle and Main In Manhattan. Sound so sad and so lonely. But then surprisingly nope. Im fine with what i had last nite and am completely ok with it.

While watchin those series and movie, suddenly my mind pop up a question .......... when will my partner will come to me and do romantic thing like in in the Movie "Maid in Manhattan" or any movie that show the true love and sacrifice and forgiveness and back to your love partner......... hmmmmmmm i wish and still wish......... ah, susah-susah, i did that to my partner..........but when will my partner do that to me.......... hmmmmm speechless again........well, thats why its call Movie. If thats not Movie, they will called Reality............. hehehehehe

After the break up, what i do feel is Lonely when am alone, but then NOW when am alone, i dont really feel lonely. It has turn to the point where i spend my own time and do what ever i want to do. I cook, buy, shopping, reading, watching tv, eating and anything that i could do alone, i still continue and enjoy every second of my time.

Still wishing my partner will come.........and i will enjoy my life with it? Yes and still.

Never say Never. I know i will get my Happiness back and I could get the right partner for Me.

Thats why my new tagged is " I will and I could".

I dont want to type my express seems like i won 1 million cheer but my face is start to smile back................ :-)

Till then, Cheers

Jco Donut.........

Dont know why but then am craving for the Donut. Not just any kind of donut, just only 2 type of donut - Jco and Big Apple Donut.

2 Word i could say bout this 2 brand, Yummy and superb.............

Seriously, i love it and like it the moment it touch my tongue. The dough is so fluffy, the icing and the feeling inside the dough and also the sweetness of the donut. Simply delicious and i still can imagine how does it taste.

Compared from Jco and Big Apple, I kind of prefer to the Big Apple. Reason is their dough taste better compared to Jco and even firmer on the dough. The feeling is not that sweet. Urgh.......... Love it and Like it more........

Well, there goes my diet.................. kuikuikuikuikui

Till then, cheers

House - AXN

Watch final season for House last nite and i satisfied with what they did.........

Obviously, we can tell that House is the "one" who really need help. Be so mean to the others, sarcastic and he's word is rude. Even though he doing that, but then he always know what he is doing. I kind of envy and impress of what he did. Reality, thats the way it is. No pain no gain.

I have seen some of my friends acting like House character and i could conclude into 2 perception. He is really like that and the other one is, they trying to hide something. I was rite when the last part when he is in coma and he met his dead patience, and he kind of confess that being in depression,lonely, down, sick and ill make him dont want to continue his life. She reply saying " You cant always get what you want". He nodded and move out from that place.

He really need someone and he is trying level best to get happiness. When we knew bout this matter, they actually need help. I know what does he mean and completely understand cause I'm in that position as well. Just be courteous and be alert of others need. Dont be selfish dude...... ( Remind to me as well)

The word " You cant always get what you want" bring lot of meaning to me. Its is true and there is lots of reason lies behind it and we cant even know the answer. Only the Almighty could say it. I just leave the answer Him but at the mean time, i will try my level best to get what i want. Until to what extend............ Wakaranai..- I dont know - Mane le teman tau yob. Its not easy but its not impossible.

"I will and I could"

Till then, Cheers