What Do we learn from this story

Lets talk to the highlight parts only.........

1. Sometime, we never think that what we have is really valuable and we tend to think other parts till we lost it..........Seriously, we need to cherish of what we have........

2. Being in Malaysia, we never think that how lucky we are...... There are lot of remarkable place we can visit and enjoy.......... Go, take a tour and enjoy while its still there. Seriously, went im at Twin Tower bridge, It really make me smile................

3. Please think twice how lucky we are and there are lot of people still not lucky.......... do something for them and think that you not the only one who live in this world......... be socialized and have a civic mind about other person..........by this way, you will be more human than a modern life that always think you, you you.........seriously, think bout it.

4. When you had a life, friends, or a Leave where you required to rest....... please, i mean please take a good rest......... there must be reason why god give you a chance to have a rest. Think about it........... its like this, my aunt for example, she's a workaholic........... all her life is all about work, work and work......... then keep on complaining that she don't have rest at all..........then one day, by gods will, she got sick, just a simple flu....... and my aunt is really , i mean really have a problem with the flu.......... thats is......... she got it almost a week on a bed and sleepin............

To me, when im work...... i tried to have a ample time with working, rest and socialised.......... cause once you missed any of this, it wont be balance........true enough we are pack with work, we do..... finished it and work on it, but then take a good rest after that. Cause believe me darling, " Work never ends...............".I have a friends who is too workaholic till he got minor stroke........... do you want that happen to you......... so think about it.........

Till then, Cheers

Sunday......

I got invitation for a makan2 at klang from my agent........... later i found out that day is my agents Wedding.....me and not so proper attire make me embarrass.........and pity my friend who i bring her together where she also not in a suitable attire as well.

After the wedding, i went out buy tickets and out with my special friends. Seriously, i had a great time with him......the ultimate moment is when we had doughnut at Big Apple. I really cant describe my joy and how happy i am at that time....... Seriously. The moment i had still in my mind......

After that, i went back and stop by at my friends and it turn out we went to shah alam Pak Li's Kopitiam. That nite, i had Nasi Ayam lemon and Ayer Kedondong.......... The taste was ultimate and tremendously delicious......

The moral of the story will be next ...

Saturday.........

Remember or not.........

I keep on saying bout donate and doing charity stuff............ well basically i did participate on the independent person who willing give their effort and time doing charity.

I sleep quite late on friday..... that is after went to Club together with my friends......... I really had a great time over there that nite. Most of my close friends was there and seriously i had a great nite. Its been quite sometime i never had great time like that nite.

Woke up early aka not enough sleep, i have to send my nephews to tuition......... a special request by my Big brother with some RM 50 not given as an advance thanks from him......aka asked me to send his son go tuition. Well....... no harm doing it cause i help my brother plus some tips money......kuikuikui

Then went back and get prepared for Charity work.......As mentioned is basically organised by my friend. He is really into doing the Charity work. The best part is, He only interested in Sincere concept.........meaning ...... not hidden agenda's involve not even the religion basis...........how was that. Lot of stuff has been collected and me and him deliver to this one charity home.......... I will tell you what happen on that place on next issue.

After the Charity stuff, i pick up my significant other and went to his friends Badminton gather....We had Badminton session, makan2 session and AF watch session..................My significant other really like the gather and keep on saying it and love it non stop............. im happy for my significant other. Then send my significant other and went back home...........

That's for now on saturday story .........

Friday......

Ok, now here's are the highlights........

Few days before my mom asked me to buy luggage bag at Isetan right after she saw it inside the Isetan Promotion Brochure. Well, i have to struggle woke up early in the morning and go to Isetan KLCC. My sis in law asked to transfer money and check her account at the ATM and i did at KLCC as well.......

While waiting the Isetan open, i went to bank and do the transaction.....its at Maybank and near to Twin Tower Bridge entrance.... and i saw there are lot of people queue up to get through the Bridge........Hey.... not bad idea....... i don't have anything to do.....how bout have a look at the bridge........so i participate the line up as well........

Happen to be, i saw one of my friends that i know him at Fitness Center......he smile look at me and asked i came with whom.......as i am alone, i said I'm alone.......... he assist me to get fast ticket and my visit time is on 12.30pm.......get the ticket-Thanks Ross...... i went to Isetan.......

Guess what......there are lot of people waiting and they are waiting to the same item........"Luggage Bag.......!" sharp 10.02 am isetan open and Not even gate open half......, the customers slip in and Run........................... Macam larian mendapatkan makanan untuk bekalan sepanjang hayat......................well yours truly did the same thing....

Reach at that place.....not even 1 minutes the Luggage Bag is FINISHED...........Why....simply because they Offer a Bag cost about RM 400 plus, down to RM 100 . and its for "2 " bag.how was that............. if this happen to all of them doing charity.........Run to donate...... what a World Peace.........

After fail to get my Moms bag..... i hang around at KLCC waiting for my visit time......... don't know what to do........ i just do window shopping and by 12.30 i wait my turn to go up.......Well there's a session of explanation bout Petronas Twin Tower and the Bridge with 3D version. And then up me to the Bridge...........

Remember my friends Ross........he was there.......... since am alone he accompany me and i Really had fun and enjoy the moment..... Feels like a VIP treat............Thanks again Ross.......The pic i took....... maybe la later i upload.......

Then i went of Friday prayer and seriously impress me when surmon did in English....hmmmmmm not bad...........i guess all the city folks really can feels surmon in English and understand it ........ i guess........

After that, went to One Utama for movie with my best friends Fiza and it end at The curve with hang out and had dinner over there with my other friends...........

Moral of the story..........well to be continued cause i have things to do rite now.......

Till then, Cheers

Week 1 on On Leave session

You know what, sometime when we think we could have a rest when we On Leave........ it wont work at all.........

why do i say like that...........well let me tell you what happen to me.....

Before coming to this week, i keep on asking myself or nagging to my friends......." Nak buat aper ah dalam 2 minggu nie......... ? " maybe i just lepak at home and do house work i guess.......( huh ya rite........)......well its already Saturday and my schedule is still pack with this and that.......

Woke up on Last Tuesday, i was like woke up quite late....... about 11 am... then went out to pay bills, here and there and there some of the leftover lasagna.......i made a lasagna and send my niece to tuition............when im back at night...... i was exhausted......

Wednesday and Thursday, there is something i have done but then i cant recall......... owh ya...... went out with my significant other...( i suppose) and we hang out at Sogo.....Shopping.....bole.......

Ah yes, before that, Wednesday nite, i went out with my fren to his college pot luck.........( did i tell you all i made a Bread Butter Pudding.....well, i made it and the best part is its finished..........) ; meeting new gang...... i like.........and back home bit late.

But the part i want to highlight is on Friday.........

What was happen...........tunggu...........

3 days after my last day......

Monday..........

I woke up at 9 and start cooking. By 4pm i finish. I'm afraid that food i serve not enough. But then, i was wrong, Its completely enough and everyone who turn up had a great time....... Mission accomplished.

My significant other turn up as well....... kekekekekekeke

Now am tired but still wanna update my blog.

When i think it back, there are several things i have learn. And the story begin...........

1. Being a Malaysian, and approach people for a donation is really hard. They somehow or rather, never thought that they should be lucky to be lucky. unlike to other people who suffer and being unlike side, they face it in a strong way........... it remind me that i should be thankful and at least be sincere in donate and once you give never expect to get the return. Cause i could see, they would like to see something for return and that is no Good.........

2. Friendship, always make you cherish. Should be lucky enough to have a friends and you never know they might help you when you in trouble. So, treat them well and don't make enemy.

3. If you cook......... cook from your heart. At first i don't believe it, but then, trust me babe....... you will see the different. This is why, you will always love your mom's cooking even though you mom are a bad cooker........Ops, No offence mom, you're not included. if not, how do i get the best cooking experience......... of course its from you.


Till then, Cheers

3 days after my last day......

Sunday,

Woke up early....... bout 9 plus after sumeng called....... ehehehehehehe, sorry babe..... Sunday is a lazy day to wake up early. Pick up my Adik angkat and zush............. Ulu Yam........... had a great Nature therapy over there. You know what, been in a urban life for quite sometimes make me wanna have Nature feelings in my soul. So what i did is went to Waterfall at Ulu Yam........ Really relaxing but if i could be there longer would be the da'boom........ seriously. Its been quite sometimes i never went there.....i mean in a nature........ i guess since New year where i went to Grik for Kayak. Seriously guys, you should go there...............You will know what am i say about.

After that, went back and take a quick shower and off again to Alpha Angle to met my friend. Had a good char with him and then met my mom at my brothers house. Back before Maghrib but str8 to tesco for shopping..........Shopping some food to cook cause i invite my friends to my house.

I just feel to cook and want to invite them to my house. Well i did. Not all i invite, around 20 person and only 15 person turn up. What meal i cook...........For main dish- Lasagna, Roti Jala. Then tid bits nugget and cocktail. The fruit Punch for drink and bread butter pudding for dessert. Not Bad...........

To be continued

3 days after my last day......

Waa...............ehehehehehehehe, tetiba je kan menjerit nangis katanyer........

Basically, its already 3 days i have turn myself to a title of unemployed.......... just for moment before i start my job at one of the Local company. Cant wait to explore new environment and i guess can start new channel after what i had previously. Am gonna start my job over there on 7th May.

Last saturday, i had a last assignment as a charity person by doing a charity work at Bukit Jalil......What do i do over there is basically selling Sunny Lion for a Charity...... Well i met my target to sell 20 even i manage to sell up to 25. Not bad Nicq........ yeay.....

Then, went to Bukit Bintang to met my significant other and afterthat have chat with him. Discuss several things and send him to work. After that went to my Adik angkat and we all met up Fiza and up to Ikea......... Just to have fun and buy some over there. As usual, people like me, when enter there, its a must. Even a stupid thing pun nak beli...... Bleh........

After that we had early dinner at Kluang Kopitiam and well.... that place is not the kind as what i expected. After that, we all hang out at Plaza Damas look up few things and met Sumeng. My good friends and my junior. Reason is to discuss on Waterfall event on the next day.

To be continue......

Last Day.............

In life we face lot of situation and this one i want to highlight is on last day...........this one that i want to share start from my transfer from Johor to Kelantan, My first job at HSBC, my second job at ENC and the last one will be from Century company............

Way back then, when im in form 5........my parents got to transfer to Kota Bharu. At that time, my dad as a Prison Officer in Kluang. We stayed over there about 6 years.....Then he managed to transfer back to Kelantan...... His beloved state........ ehehehehehe.....

Nothing much happen that time, no party, no havoc say farewell, just a simple wish all the best by my classmate....... but there's one incident happen when so called a good buddy of my friend really want to celebrate my farewell by went out to Kluang Town.......and i agree to go since after this i don't know when i'll be back to kluang town.

During that time, he take the opportunity to say good bye and say I'm one of his buddy and he will never forget it that moment......... feels like a couple jer......urgh...... yuk....kekekekekekeke. Few years after that, me and so called buddy met up and he actually has change......... He's no longer a buddy and when I'm think it back........ he never be my buddy..........cause i never had one.........

Then my second memories, when I'm in HSBC Cyberjaya. My last day was terrible,I'm suppose to finished on Wednesday, its been delay till Friday.........That time I'm suppose to go without confirm, end up i found out that i already confirm......... and i have to pay 2 month salary........How was that.............just because my excellent Team Leader forgot to give my confirmation letter. Such a mess aite...........
But my teammate give a simple farewell card and well that time heals little bit on my frustration and ready to go. Ooh, did i tell you why i left this HSBC......... cause i work in an odd hour. So not me.............

My third memories is when i left ENC. Basically, i love this company. Just because i had a good leaders, good college and good company. Reason i left simply because my company has a bad capital resources and they fail to pay our salary for 2 month. Well, i have experience it and not that bad actually...............no money, and no worries..............still icant figure out how can i survive with situation like that.

But then it does touch my heart cause my good college hug me and cried on my last day. She is so good to me and we joined the ENC together and later i found out she tender 1 week before my last day......... I feel awkward when she hug me, but its really touch my heart. My ex bos treat me at Satay Kajang at Damansara Uptown..........

Well, that's more like it.

And now i change my job again.......... reason i change, you can have a look my post before. But then, still i like this place......... i had a good friends and nice place to work and near to my house. Not to say my new place far from my house but ok la........and i don't know why, when i think it back, i tend to have mood swing lately..........don't know why.........maybe I'm gonna missed my memories over here i suppose.............

Moral of the story:
1. when you leaving to anywhere, don't ever do bad cause you might never know you might turn back to that place............
2. People can change. i know cause i am...........
3. Never regret from what you have had done before. Cherish of what you have present and always looking forwards to move yourself to a better place.

Till then, cheers

Take a bus.....

Remember the entry previously i said about take a bus............

Well, i still like it. The only part that i don't like is when its raining and you are waiting you bus to come in. Its really a pressure. especially when you see the same number of the bus came but not you bus number......... argh................at that time you are shading under the bus-stop and your bag and your shoe are wet........ so how.......

Then when bus arrive and you enter, there are lot of people and all kind of people......... plus with the smell.......... urgh............kekekekekekeke can you imagine it........you bet i will babe............

so, i have decide one thing. If i want to take a bus ride, its when I'm free and not in a peak hour. How was that...........

Till then, cheers

Farewell Treat

Yesterday, there's a farewell treat for me and yes, i already resign from my current position and after this i will be joining one of the well know company starting from 8th May.

Not say im not thankful but then if you would like to do something, at least do it in a right manner so that the person that you treat feel good or touch. They actually treat me so called " Nasi Briani "..............

To me, I'm OK with that; but then before that they plan to have a pizza and before that they wanna treat me at Nasi Ayam kampung............and the best part is, my bos telling me cause limit of budget, we have to give you "Nasi Briani"............ If you in my position what were you thinking.............I can have anything given, but then as i said earlier on, if you want to it something, do it right.

I was like............ hummmmmmmmmmmm duh...........

Think about it............

Till then, Cheers

Bus Riding

Since last Friday till now, I'm using Bus to go work..................this is because i am lazy to pay RM 7 for the parking. As simple as that aite................

At the same time, my Adam ( that's what i call for my car- Yup guys, dont shock.......... lot of people do that, call names to their cars or bike.......... i dont know what reason behind it but then when we do that, we actually kind of bind to that car and we show that we care bout it...........) can have a rest at home and i can save on the petrol as well.

Back to my story bout my experience take a bus to work............. previously i cant take a bus to work..... simply because its so far away and if i could, it really hassle me to go up and down cause there's no direct bus to work. and now i can do that. Its because my office is reachable by bus and bus can reach my home with only a few steps. eheheheheheheheh i loike........

I just used it sometimes if am bored.......,wanna save my money, tengah sengkek, lazy to drive and etc............when I'm in the bus, i can say i like it......... you can have a rest, see the view, there's a driver brings you where ever you want to go, bus is clean, and its cheap..........RM 2, you can used the same system that they provide and anywhere........save isn't it.......hmmmmmmmmm
tell me bout.

But then, the part people hate most when they in the bus, too cramp when peak hour, late, slow , and you can smell people "additional aromatherapy"..........ow............. just cant imagine that and really wanna avoid it..........

So, moral of the story of the day today, tahe a ride by bus and you can have a best moment while you on journey.

Till then, Cheers

Mr Singgamoney

When i look at the title, it remind me to my former headmaster from one of the school i used to be in..........

Back then, when i was form 1 till 4, i was schooling at Rengam, a small town where population i suppose not more than 10,000 person.The school i went in called Sek Menengah Dato' Haji Hassan Yunos. This school well know in Kluang as one of the best school of discipline and their English debate............

When i think bout it, we had a great one and most of the student went there that time kind of good one............this is because of our Beloved Headmaster Mr Singamoney. He is very strict and always called all of us " Anak-anak........" and always carried a cane everywhere....... and once he smash that cane on your bud....... you will get the mark and be there for a week............Well not me...... am kind of innocent kids......hehehehehehehehe sorry ah.........

He is really dedicated with his work........... focus and know what is he doing. He has a mission and and always his mission success...... do an event and program for school and raise the fund. I envy with his commitment and passion in schooling, education, discipline and care of his student. Till to his last day before he retired, he still give a full commitment and stop or slow down never in his dictionary.

A week before he his retired day comes, he still punish the student and smack the naughty student with his cane............

When i look on it and on my last day in my dept, am actually already show my lost interest and not in the mood of doing my work........ This is new era and this is not suppose to be happen....... i should be working and show that i want to commit and working....... but......ehehehehehe , ok ok ok, i will improve and help my bos finished up my work............

What happen to Mr Singgamoney........what happen to the Sek. Men Dato Haji Hassan Yunos rite now and what happen to a commitment nowadays.................

Anybody can tell.............

Till then, Cheers

Motivation

I like to write or say like above :

Its somehow or rather motivate's me and not making me feels a low person. How bout you?

Till then, Cheers

Breaking the Ice

Last nite i went to 2 places near to my place in ampang for lepak............which is the first one is at White Coffee at Ampang Water Front from 6.30 pm till 9.45 pm. I have to make a move cause by 10.00 pm am actually await for the Grey's Anatomy. That's basically my favourite Drama? kekekekee programme i assume............ I like it because its a story about love, life, surprises, togetherness, cheat, joy, friendship ( reminds me on enfa grow tv ad " mama..... friend.... ship sambil show the picture of friend and a ship) and every things brings memory to our life. But then, i forgot that last nite StarWorld is doing the American Idol Charity stuff....... so i missed it.

Hmmm, back to the topic.........

Then about 11, went out again met up with my old Uitm fren, almost want to cancel the meet up but cause its quite sometime i haven't met him.... well what a heck...........

What i want to share is basically about people we met and how we interact among each other that we already know and a new person that join the group.

When i was at White coffee, me actually with my 2 good office buddy and sudden there's 2 person came and join us........ we had a chat of everything while one of our new join fren look miserable and messy enough. so we are try to make him not to think his problem.... and had a good chat.

Then the second hang out, we're actually join another group and i just know them over there. .......... well when we arrive over there, as usual, introduce ourselves and then silent............. so i have to help myself to make myself don't feel awkward. After that, about half an hour the conversation start goes well and better but still silents appear time to time........

Its indeed make me smile of people behaviour. The thing is, though we don't know to the new person, nothings wrong try to initiate a conversation and make the group more fun. Some people that a too comfortable with their own group till the point a new person joint in they tend to ignore it or make a one kind face. Its shouldn't be like that and its really hurt other people feeling. Greet them, cherish it in the group so that you not actually get a new friends and basically you never know, in the future you might need help or refer to his or her speciality. You never know babe..........

Morale of the story is New friends brings a new perspective or view and its actually bring a lot of good compare to just be in own flock........ so whats your view.......

Till then, Cheers

Built a TRUST

Finished with the parental Trust

Here comes on the Relationship Trust..........

This one is actually happen to me last year. Where at that time i was attached to my eX. To be frank the person is young, vibrate and good looking. We knew each other by a friend of us. My friend introduce to my eX and when the time goes on and i know my ex and we decide to be a couple.

When i knew my eX, and as usual, i always urge on trust. I give that cause so called i " trust " my eX. Basically, as a human they tend to have more then what they have. So my eX request for the Open relationship so that eX can have outside affair. At that time, i agree with condition no harm for me to have outside affair as well as long NO cheat.

Right after that, my eX basically cheat and i got caught after they having SEX. Its really hurt my feelings but i decide to give my eX a second chance. After that incident, our relationship goes well. Till on my eX birthday, i plan to give my eX a surprise but turn out i got a surprise where my eX did it again. This time, no more chance. Cheating is basically destroy the trust that i gave...........

The moral of the story is, Trust is something important in human life. by Trust people can do a million of profit and by trust also people can lost a million of money. By trust good relationship bind very strong and by loosing trust war can be explode. With Trust it has to be careful.....

People always say give me ur trust to do work or i trust u for doing this job. It sound so easily, but then the responsible is really heavy. I always try to give the best effort so that i can earn my trust form person i deal with. This is by given them my best attitude, and show how im into that situation.

But then, once my Trust broke up. Only 2 time i give a chance. At this point once the second chance is broke. So sorry....... Let you go and no turn back. So, which person you are..........

Till then, Cheers

Built a TRUST

When we talk about trust, its really subjective. Every each person has their own perspective and their own view.... Vice verse, it came to the same item which is TRUST. i guess i wanna tell you about 2 story where its happen to me.........

This one is on my parental hood - well my mom and dad.......

During Teenage, my dad only allow us to get the car and bike licence after we all finish SPM. His reason is he don't want us use his car easily and loose focus on the study. Even when we all get the licence from JPJ, it doesn't mean we all get the approval from my dad and my mom for driving a car. We been test and at that point you ear cup has to be bloody thick enough listen to their nagging if we make a small mistake.

Then there's a time when i was in a university and my dad want to send me up..... hehehehe hof coz i like, but then we have to pass the east-west highway heading to kedah. Before the journey, my mom suggest me to drive. Straight away i reply to dad with at that time my dad start to give one kind of face that he is hesitate to give his car for me to drive...... " is there any rules and regulation or not, if there is No thanks......."

Basically, I'm actually not showing the rude attitude to parent but then reason is i try to avoid any hassle during the journey. Definitely my dad will be too precaution and doubt on my driving skill. Even though our dad taught on trust, but then they reserved little bit and take a precaution. Its a learning skill where never thought in University.

think about it.

To be continued.......

Till then cheers

Friendship

I am lucky to have many good friends. I feels great is because am not alone that they basically care bout me and i also care bout them as well.

I do have many kind of friends, Club friends, University Friends, Uitm Friends, Chat friend, Old school fren, Primary frens office friends and unknown where they came from and from which category, but turn to a good friends of mine..........

For anyone who know me as Nicq, Nasrul, Amad, Nas, I should say thank you for being my best friends and i will always remember all of you. Its always a best moment even though there are sometime bad things happen but then still ' I Love It".............

At this stage, i would like to introduce a good friend of mine and her name is Fiza..... yes guys, its a lady or a girl......we are so closed till to the point that we know each other very well. I know her secret and she know my secret. In a month, its a must we all must met. Have a chat, share, discuss and have Good laugh.

Being special person definitely need a full intention and full support, she always support me. No matter what. Even, my significant half know bout her and always looking forward to met her when i tell bout fiza.

You see, have a Best friend is always the best gift that the Almighty give to us and for me am always thank for it...........

How bout you all guys................Do you have one? If don't, i can be one.......... It wont cost you anything, just a Best friendship will do i suppose.

Till then, Cheers

Loose Control

There are many ways people tend to loose their control. Bad Temper, anger, tension, stress and any kind of activities related to Loose Control. As a human, i do too......

Look at my situation, there are several things that lead the Blood go upstairs..........for example hungry. I really can loose my temper when I'm hungry. After i loose it, i will act STUPID. It will cause other people feel bad and angry and hurt their feelings. Definitely when i realized it, i feel bad. As a person that this year make my age near to the number 30, basically, i try to control and not having the bad temper control my emotion. What is your control level looks like?

Sometimes, we tend to be so damn Bloody stupid( mind the language). Even we are matured enough, we tend to do it. Shame on it aite.........

So what is your control level........Have a thought on that's piece of mind.

Till then, cheers

Together

Went out for a vacation is something that we are always looking for. So do I. Went to A nice famous holiday spot with my love one and friends basically cherish the moment and improve the relationship to a better stage.

Even though my significant other really hard to express feelings, but then again it went well and every moment the act shows how's love is all around.

People said " action speaks louder that say" actually reflect of what does it mean. We don't have to tell too much. Its enough by say it in a simple way and at the same time bind it with sincerity. I've learn much by the phrase given.

I should say, I love it and like it in every moment happen on that 2 days.

Till then, Cheers

People perception

Many-many years ago, we used to hear people say bad thing to anyone who like to go to movie. To them if am not wrong, a couple go to the movie with the scene of dark inside the cinema, they will do naughty-naughty thing. That is back then and now its really rare to hear that kind of perception. I wonder WHY??????

Then nowadays the same scenario happen and its not focus to cinema, its spread to any other places and agenda. the one i want to focus is on people who like to go disco and hang out at Tasik.......

For disco, for someone who never went there, they will hear a word of a crowd of people who go there with fancy and sexy dress, alcohol all around, get drunk, flirting around and all the social things happen came from inside there. Well no doubt those things happen, but then Not All. Why did i say that...... i will explain after this....... Tunggu........ ( Just wait in English)

For person who went to Tasik or lake or playground, don't care day time ( in the afternoon) of midnight,they been label doing bad thing except the gardener, guard who take care of the garden in case bad things happen inside there and a family went there with their children for a leisure activity. This one is for a couple who went there for do naughty-naughty thing inside the garden area.

This 2 things basically focus on social problem occurs and its involved from there. I never say those this is rubbish and i actually accept and agree with what happen. But then again, Not All Darling. Small percentage when there just for fun. I mean a pure fun without doing bad or naughty thing. Like Disco, i went there to enjoy the music, dance till we are sweat like a pig, and meet people and socialised. Same goes with Tasik where i went there just to hang out, get the night scenery, meet my fren and have a chat. Dont forget, at the same time, as my hobby, i like to observed people and see what are they up to.

Bear In your mind, if people want to do bad thing, they can do anywhere, not only from disco or tasik.......even in the place that we are not expect it will happen. it will happen.
Basically is on our mindset and how we handle it. If we meant to be good, it will be good. If you want to make it bad or worse, by God will, it will happen. Maybe this is the time we enjoy and in the future we might not know what going to happen. Once we had it, never regret of it.. Cherish on what we had right now and no worries for the future.

You dont have to be a PM or president to do this, you could do it and make it simple and straight forward. That will do best

Till then Cheers

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Before you speak, Listen
Before you write, Think
Before you spend , Earn
Before you criticised, Wait
Before you pray, Forgive
Before you quit, Try


Hmmm, have a think bout it.

Till then Cheers

-nicq-

lifestyle

Now a days compared to 10 years ago, is actually different. Yah........ hof coz it suppose to be different, wether a good one or bad one. Time has change actually. What am actually wanna say is The hang out at Starbucks outlets trend. You wont get this kind of situation back then, maybe about 15 years ago i suppose.

I also do the same thing. Its been since last 2 days and today. Its kind of monthly activity of me. Dont care whether am alone, ( read storybooks, newspaper etc) or hang out with my frens. Normally what we do is have a chat and mengayam ketupat ( say bad or good to other ppl) to anyone who passby around us. See if this ppl have a good skin, nice shirt, how ugly they wear, that person is cute , that person not nice doing like that and etc etc.

I really had fun. Not the part where we comment bad thing to other person. But then see people and anlyse them and then have a thought on yourself ( konon nyer musabahah diri la......kuikuikui). same like what i do by hopping one blog to another blog. somehow or rather, they always give advise, thought of life.

Moral of the story over ere, even in muslim we always been thought on one thing " never say the bad thing to other people" its really no good. Though its fun but then " STILL .... no good." heheheheheheh. When i think it back it remind me of a story

Back then i dont care what other people wanna say bout me. and im actually did something bad that bring graceful to me. The bad thing i did turn to a laughing stock and talk back among the peers. and i found out theres one fella really love to say it and spread the news with additional story. I keep quiet and let the time heels. Then the news on what i did turn quiet. Then lately i met that fella and guess what........... What actually he say bad thing bout me before has turn 4x to him ............ even worse
hows that...........

So dont talk bad about other people,

Till then Cheers

- Nicq -

Bagaimana Menyayangi Seseorang...

Sayang, kuharap bahawa dirimu akan mengerti:

1. Sayangi dia dengan hati, bukan dengan perasaan. Jika anda meletakkan sesuatu perhubungan berdasarkan perasaan, ianya akan gagal kerana perasaan sentiasa berubah dari masa ke semasa.

2. Sayangi dia seadanya. Di dunia terdapat hampir 6 billion manusia dengan 6 billion personaliti. Dia sememangnya seorang yang istimewa dan biarkan ianya kekal begitu. Jangan sesekali terfikir untuk mengubah apa-apa tentang dia kerana sekali anda mengubah, selamanya anda akan terus mengubah dirinya. Tentu anda masih ingat, anda terpikat padanya kerana dia adalah dia. Maka, tiada alasan untuk anda mengubah dia untuk menjadi seseorang yang lain.

3. Sayangi dia sepenuh hati. Sesungguhnya dia telah banyak berkorban untuk anda. Dengan kelebihan yang ada padanya, dia berpeluang untuk menjalin hubungan dengan seseorang yang lebih sempurna tapi demi cinta, dia telah memilih diri anda. Maka, jangan sesekali cuba untuk mempermain-mainkan keluhuran cintanya.

4. Hormati pendirian dan keputusan dia. Jangan anda merayu dan jangan mencipta alasan supaya dia menerima cinta anda kerana kelak, yang anda akan dapat darinya hanyalah cinta simpati dan bukannya cinta setulus hati.

5. Yakinkan diri anda akan keistimewaan dia. Dia adalah satu-satunya di dunia ini dan jangan mengharapkan kesempurnaan dari dia kerana dia telahpun cukup sempurna semenjak anda mula terpikat padanya.

6. Percaya akan dirinya. Sentiasa bersangka baik padanya jika kita juga mahukan sebegitu darinya. Pastikan anda akan sentiasa meletakkan diri anda di tempatnya sebelum melakukan apa-apa. Jika anda sendiri tidak dapat menerimanya, apatah lagi dia.

7. Jangan berjanji menyayangi dia untuk selama-lamanya kerana selama-lamanya bagi anda mungkin akan berakhir keesokkan harinya, tapi berjanjilah untuk menyayangi dirinya seolah-olah setiap hari itu adalah hari yang terakhir untuk anda berdua.

8. BERCINTA dengannya adalah seperti memberi hati anda kepadanya untuk dilukai tapi kepercayaan itu penting. Percayalah kepadanya, nescaya dia akan melindunginya sepenuh jiwa dan raga.

9. Jangan sesekali meninggalkan dia tanpa sebarang alasan. Dia bukan hanya akan setakat menangis kecewa dan kemudiannya meneruskan hidup seperti biasa, ketahuilah bahawa jiwanya akan mati secara perlahan.

Untuk chentaku dariku


-Cancer Ian Guy-

Glory or Booming

Working in a company that already reach to a Century Celebration in a certain extend it really feels proud in our heart. Well who doesn't. Work in an establish company, good benefits, good infrasturcture, good facility, good here, good that. But then, some how or rather, to a certain extant its really not bring a satisfaction in my heart.

Maybe because of the internal matter i.e Leadership and guidance.

To me who came from a small company and guide by a good leader, always make me looking forward to have a better prospect in my career. Been thought in several ways, hard, soft, in direct, laser, curse, etc. etc, still make me looking forward to improve myself to a better person.

But then when im in this century company. I didnt get it. But i like the job, i like the environment, i like the college, and i like the people inside. Yet, still not satisfied me. Make me hunt for a new job and partially start from scratch.

But then, when i say this to some people, they may say, normal la tu... Thats what we call life, challange is every where. That is the barrier you need to face it and overcome it. Well, i tried to clam myself with say that. but still not satisfied enough. Then it make me wonder, does it leadership or guidance that am looking for or my own goal for the career acheivement. so in this point, let say the leadership is bad, why must it effect with my career. Aren't you big enough to control urself and take your own lead?

By this point also i have made my decision. No matter what happen rite now, it all about me and my goal. The leadership not right is a challange and midset play a big roll put you where u are and what are you and who you wanna be and how you gonna make it happen. Coz why i do this thing, its all for my goal and i want to achieve it.....

I have made a decision to move and i got it. God basically give me a chance to improve and show what good thing that i can give for me and my interest. Leaving the century company its simply not easy for me. Good fren- best fren in fact, good environment, good benefit, good working place and lot more. Maybe its a fate that i just able to enjoy those things just for a year. But then i like it and i really appreciate it. Thanks to my good fren, good buddy and good college.

Till then - Cheers

Nicq

Double R

Risk & Relationship, Do you ever know that if we involve in relationship there are a lot of risk that we are taking? What kind of risk do we have to face in relationship? Hm… Let me see.

During our study life and work life we have learned about Business Risk Management, but in term of human contact the relationship that we build involve a lot of risk that we have to learn thru experience and we have to manage it very well to make sure no one is hurt. There are many kind of risk in relationship, start with Risk of Commitment, Risk of Honesty and Loyalty, Risk of Sharing, Risk of Sex and many more that all of you can think of.

All of this risk we have to accept after we decide not to be alone and decide to share all the inner feeling with our couple. In PLU life or some people call it as GSK, the risk of relationship is much higher than the normal people. The tendency of relationship broken due to poor management of risk is higher. Why is that? Some people said because we are not normal. Yes, we are not normal but we have chosen to be like this. There must be some solution for this. How many PLU couple can survive long lasting relationship? And some of them prefer to have open relationship to make sure the relationship is long lasting. Is that one of the risk management in relationship? What’s the purpose of couple?

I choose to be in PLU life because I don’t have any stronger feeling towards versus gender. I don’t want to be alone and I really appreciate relationship. But, being in this kind of society will I being able to get someone who appreciates relationship too? Who are not into open relationship, which believe in monogamous?

Its not easy to manage relationship risk in this modern society, its depend on how you manage it with your partner. Even myself are afraid of broken relationship or friendship. For time being, I really miss my CHENTA, and I really hope him and myself are pulling together to make this relationship worth. He is not very far away and I can drive there for 2 hours just to see him. I just want this feeling to become stronger and my love to him will rise day by day. My CHENTA, I Love You so much…

-Cancer Ian Guy-

Me, The Cancer Ian

My star horoscope explained a lot about myself.

Cancerian
The sign of Cancer witnesses to the importance of a sense of belonging in human life. It is, more than any other, the sign of home and family, but, fortunately in view of the conditions of modern life, not necessarily home and family in a literal sense. The Cancer emphasis in birth chart shows what you are striving for, whether consciously or not, is a sense that, whatever the circumstances, there is a place on earth, or an experience, or a group of people, or an interest, which can give a sense of belonging, where you can feel at home and that you are a member of a family.

The sign of Cancer also witnesses to the importance of roots, or origins, of considering the present in relation to the past. Many people feel they can ignore the past, yet feel something is lacking from their lives. Cancerians enrich the present by honouring its links to history.

Since Cancerians have a need to feel they belong, they can be very reluctant to let go of or move on from situations that give them a sense of emotional security, and sometimes it is necessary to move on. Cancer is ruled by the Moon, and to have the Sun in the Moon's sign can indicate a reluctance to leave the realm of Mother, childhood home and family in order to undertake the solar task of becoming an individual in one's own right. This task is symbolised by the move from Cancer to the next sign Leo, which is ruled by the Sun.

Cancer is a water sign, and the psychological opposite is air, the thinking function. If you chart is lacking in planets in air, you are likely to find it difficult to view emotionally complex situations in which you may find yourself with any detachment. This can lead to compatibility issues in love relationships. People whose charts are dominated by the element of air may describe you as ‘over-emotional’ - and maybe you see them as too detached! Suppose you have the Moon in Aquarius - an air sign - to complement your Cancerian emphasis. You may be instinctively drawn to an ideal (an air phenomenon) that conflicts with your need to belong, and you have to perform an inner negotiation to honor both parts of your own nature.

The above is just a brief sketch of the sort of qualities Cancer should be aiming for. If you are experiencing difficulties on the way, the rest of your birth chart will indicate where these difficulties are, and a consultation would very likely provide clues as to how to deal with them. All aspects of our nature, as represented by the planets in signs and houses of our charts, need to be honoured and respected.

Do I have to explain more…?

Housework

Be a "Man", a single man to be exact sometime its really difficult. We have to do everything that we need to do. For example, washing clothes, cook ( hehehe we rather buy ), pay bills, cleaning house and lots more where normally this thing is done by a girl or lady.Well, some of us, just do a shortcut by sending it to dobi, or laundry. Others who is dont want waste their money they buy a washing machine and washed it on their own.
Its basically wonders me, how our mom can do it. For example my mom, when i was kid, she had to wash clothes for my dad, my siblings and me that would be 4 of us and her clothes. All together is 6 of us........ not just wash it, dry it - hang it ( and she's gonna scream and nagging whole day if we all forget to take it when its rainin) , fold it and iron it. Just imagine that how hard can it be.......wierd aite........ but that whats God have gave strength to her. Now, she still doing the same thing but only for herself and for my dad. So just imagine other family consist of 8 person or more than that. Like old time, one family is lot compare to nowadays, 4 siblings pun consider alot. Thats only wash the cloth part, what bout others like cook, clean the house, working and thae care all of us............
Why i pop up this thing is because of i have to washed 1 weeks clothes and fold for a 2 weeks dry shirt. Not just mine, but whole community in our house. Ya ampun...........it takes me about 2 hours and give me a backpain.........
After for 2 hours, then im lazy to put it inside the closet. Gosh, really lazy babe......... u know why, coz when i fold it, i do it at downstairs and lazy to take it up. several round it might takes........woke up this morning and go down to work , still i can see the clothes that i've done it still there. No one to take it. Coz im alone last nite and no one at home last nite.
This thing happen if you are alone ah. And for a "Normal" guys, the easy way is by get married. so all the things i've said, been done by their wife. Does it fair...... hmmmmm
Something can be done to make it right.................And for the other category of "Normal guys" you know which one to choose.
Moral of the story i want to say over ere is, if you wanna do the house work or "have" to do, please do it once a week so that it wont turn to a mountain and to mantain as a Single guy........ this is our routine........

Till then........ cheers