Friday, April 11, 2008

Breaking the Ice

Last nite i went to 2 places near to my place in ampang for lepak............which is the first one is at White Coffee at Ampang Water Front from 6.30 pm till 9.45 pm. I have to make a move cause by 10.00 pm am actually await for the Grey's Anatomy. That's basically my favourite Drama? kekekekee programme i assume............ I like it because its a story about love, life, surprises, togetherness, cheat, joy, friendship ( reminds me on enfa grow tv ad " mama..... friend.... ship sambil show the picture of friend and a ship) and every things brings memory to our life. But then, i forgot that last nite StarWorld is doing the American Idol Charity stuff....... so i missed it.

Hmmm, back to the topic.........

Then about 11, went out again met up with my old Uitm fren, almost want to cancel the meet up but cause its quite sometime i haven't met him.... well what a heck...........

What i want to share is basically about people we met and how we interact among each other that we already know and a new person that join the group.

When i was at White coffee, me actually with my 2 good office buddy and sudden there's 2 person came and join us........ we had a chat of everything while one of our new join fren look miserable and messy enough. so we are try to make him not to think his problem.... and had a good chat.

Then the second hang out, we're actually join another group and i just know them over there. .......... well when we arrive over there, as usual, introduce ourselves and then silent............. so i have to help myself to make myself don't feel awkward. After that, about half an hour the conversation start goes well and better but still silents appear time to time........

Its indeed make me smile of people behaviour. The thing is, though we don't know to the new person, nothings wrong try to initiate a conversation and make the group more fun. Some people that a too comfortable with their own group till the point a new person joint in they tend to ignore it or make a one kind face. Its shouldn't be like that and its really hurt other people feeling. Greet them, cherish it in the group so that you not actually get a new friends and basically you never know, in the future you might need help or refer to his or her speciality. You never know babe..........

Morale of the story is New friends brings a new perspective or view and its actually bring a lot of good compare to just be in own flock........ so whats your view.......

Till then, Cheers

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